Set to get a frenum piercing tomorrow to integrate with a device, but I have some reservations...

I have no experience with frenum piercing, my partner has got a pa done, which is AMAZING. Small point, but any piercing will leave a lasting hole, but if you leave any of them with no ring or bar in them for any length of time, they will heal over. By the way, I would imagine, that holding a whole device in place would be quite a strain for a frenum piercing, there's not a lot of skin involved. The only advantage I can see of a frenum, is that it wont affect your peeing, but then most devices cause you to need to sit down, so that issue seems a bit irrelevant. What does your mistress think of your choice?

 

You are right the frenulem piercing is unlikely to leave a hole just migrate out after a few uncomfortable weeks unless your anatomy will alow an unusually deep piercing.
Xx Wendy

 

I can only talk about my personal experience of getting stabed in my own willy 6 different times !! Yes just had an add up. Oh and 4 foreskin ones
Though I do no other guys who have been pierced in and around that area .
Just have a look through the gallery and you will find just one set of photos with a frenulem type piercing that is permanent and must be deep .
I don't understand how the lori tubes stay on maybe the cock has a large head and that takes the weight.
But if I was going to get a cage it would not rely on a piercing to keep it on as its only method of fixing.
The people who say got pierced last week and look at me now well don't believe all you read xx
Xx wendy

 

i would presume so, but also, dont forget that it will take a good few weeks of healing before you can use it with purpose

 

I am surprised that you would prefer a frenum over a PA. as:

1) a frenum takes *much* longer to heal.
2) a frenum hurts more during the procedure as well as during the healing.
3) a frenum will most likely migrate after several months and be useless for chastity
4) a frenum must be kept in something at pretty much all the time to avoid closure
5) restalling jewlry in a frenum can be difficult and painful if you cannot quickly 'find' the exit hole
6) etc.
7) etc.
8) and so forth

 

So you have had one then no good for chastity I think
Xx Wendy

 

plus, if you ever have piv sex, then Im not sure how it would work either, pa is fantastic, you just have to be gentle and careful to start with, but i fear a frenum might get in the way

 

This 'permanent' hole concept seems to have you fixated. Here is the thing, the PA is no more permanent than the frenum, if anything, a failed (or neglected) frenum piercing leaves behind more of a 'mess' than a PA.

 

Love your shoes

 

Not in my case. I have had a PA for 20 years, used it on and off during that time as recently as last week. No issues when peeing even while standing up.

 

This comes down to are you up for getting stabed in your cock or not.

Either piercing is over in seconds and only slightly uncomfortable .

Neither is life threatening and if you don't like them take the jewellery out end of.
Wendy xx

 

Please check my gallery to see a simple frenum piercing which works perfectly. Healing within few weeks, no migration, almost no pain, no bleeding at all.

 

what did you get done in the end, or are you still thinking about it?? Seriously, if you are still thinking, the pa is a much safer bet, much less prone to problems

 

whos decision was it not to get it. I still think you should get a pa done, the bad FAR outweighs the positive

 

this sissy's experience might help. Mistress made it get a PA piercing intended for a long-term Lori device, but the piercing was too shallow and it worked its way out in 3 months or so. Mistress is contemplating another, deeper PA sometime in the future, but may opt for a narrow tube chastity matching the shape and size of Her thumb...

 

Sorry, but I have a frenum piercing and 100% disagree with this post.

1) A Frenum does not take longer to heal, in my experience there was a tiny amount of blood when pierced then it took around 6 weeks to be fully healed.
2) I haven't had a PA, so can not comment, but I wouldn't expect a PA to hurt less than a Frenum; my own research before having the piercing suggested the PA would hurt more and take longer to heal.
3) This depends on how the frenum is used - if you're using it as the main point of securing the chastity device then the weight of the chastity device (depending on device weight) would of course make it migrate. If you're using it as a method of ensuring security, but using another method of taking the weight of the device then then there's no reason for it to migrate.
4) True. But the jewellery is small and easy to wear; your partner is unlikely to have any issues with you leaving it in.
5) This is just plain wrong. It doesn't hurt at all once healed, it's very simple and comfortable to wear.

There are a lot of benefits of a frenum over a PA. You can pee easily with it in, it's discreet, partners who are averse to piercings will easily accept a frenum. It's totally invisible once the jewellery is removed and it will heal quickly if you change your mind.

The only issue with a frenum piercing for chastity play is that there aren't many devices out there - this is just due to the device manufacturers not having created good devices yet. I've a few ideas of my own which I'm hoping to have made into reality, once I've finalised them. The main challenge is keeping the weight off the piercing and just using the piercing for security, not load bearing.

 

These posts are misleading and go against almost all of the information you'll read elsewhere on the internet. Please talk to a qualified piercer and get their input!