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    Locked4love I'm no longer male. I am now trans female

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    I thought I should let you all know Mistress Wyndee is no longer a part of my life. I guess she couldn't handle this lifestyle and and has left me and wants a divorce. I don't know what to say, I am at a loss for words. We were only married a little over a year but I will miss her badly.:sad0002:
     
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    I'm very sad for you. Divorce is never a nice thing as I know from bitter experience. All I can suggest is that you part amicably as to fight over everything only serves to line the pockets of lawyers.
     
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    commiserations old chap. keep a stiff(sorry)upper lip!:anim_39:
     
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    *hugs*

    Wishing you as painless a process as is possible,
    mikecb
     
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    Mistress Michelle Magical Mistress

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    I am sorry sweetie, this lifestyle is hard for some people. I am curious though, what happened, did she all of a sudden not wish to be in the lifestyle anymore or did you two marry thinking you could grow with or into the lifestyle? Was She a Domme before you married? Was just wondering.
    Hope things work out ok for you.

    Mistress Michelle
     
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    chastityslavejohn Mistress Irianna's pet

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    my condolences!
     
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    Locked4love I'm no longer male. I am now trans female

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    Thanks for all the kind words.

    Mistress Michelle we have known each other for around 6 years and I always let her know about me and my fetish's. When we got married I was in chastity at the time. It was her idea for me to be in it. She said she loved the idea and couldn't wait to learn how to be a Domme. She has always been a very bossy lady so becoming a Domme should have been a walk in the park for her. And then one day a couple months ago she just up and moved out, I have been a submissive all my life and my last deceased wife was a Domme and as long as we were together life was great.
     
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    Sorry to hear about the problems.

    I don't suppose there much people can say to make you feel better, It would seems a shame that your both not able to find some compromise, especially as you both went into the relationship knowing about each other...

    As John Lennon once said 'all you need is LOVE'

    Its always worth talking.. Good Luck

    Jack.
     
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    susie q Dear friend of the Mistress Michelle clan

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    Hi Locked4love im sorry to hear all this but i also can relate as i got dumped after 31 years but my ex was never domme and never into the whole scene at all so it must be alot tougher on you.I would like to offer some encouragement though ..in my case what seemed so bad and hopeless turned out to be a blessing as im allowed to experience it all now with Mistress Michelle although its not a marrige or a live in lifestyle she was kind enough to let me be part of her and pets life. alot of other good things have happened but do not relate to this so i wish you the best of luck in your journey and after the tears hopefully smiles for you :love0038:
     
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    Mistress Watchful Dont believe the hype ;oP

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    I'd also like to offer my support and sympathy.

    Maybe things will turn around, or maybe this is a sign that it is time for both of you to move on.

    Good luck, *hugs*
     
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    xcitex2 Back from the past!

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    Wow, so sorry to hear this. Please know I wish you both well.
     
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    It's a slow process recovery

    but do look to the positive side and do recover. For me as well - the best emerged from it.
     
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