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    #1 Hers.to.play.with, Jun 24, 2014
    Hi

    I'm new to this site, I am an early 30's Male in a steady relationship with my Key holder. We have experimented with shorter periods of denial, but on New years eve 2014 I bought a chastity belt and gave her ultimate control over my orgasms for as long as she sees fit, since then I have been allowed to cum 11 times.

    However the last time I came was without permission, she pinned me down and fucked me hard, all the while forbidding me to cum, I couldn't hold it and came despite express instructions not to, She was very angry with me said I need punishing. After thinking about it for a week she has decided that I need to be humiliated as well as punished, so she has commanded me to join this forum and let complete strangers decide my punishment. Please post punishment suggestions for me, and my key holder will then pick one of your suggestions and enforce it.

    Please be kind
     
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    #2 Wendygirl, Jun 24, 2014
    Hi Hunny

    Welcome to CM abd very good suggestion from you KH .

    First task post a couple of hundred words on your profile telling us lots about yourself and your KH .
    Please tell the truth and a nice avatar no boy bits or picture of devices we have seen them before .
    A photo of at least some bits of you with todays date you may need to reduce the quality and thus file size on what ever you take photos on .
    Remember the rider Be careful what you wish for and you asked for it !!

    Xx Wendy
     
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    #3 jemima, Jun 25, 2014
    hello, i thinks you shud be smacked with a great big paddle on your bottom. giggle.
     
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    #4 jemima, Jun 25, 2014
    @Hers.to.play.with i very very sorry for saying what i did and i been paddled now. sorry.
     
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    #5 Hers.to.play.with, Jun 25, 2014
    Thanks for the reply, I've now uploaded about me and an Avatar.
     
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    #6 MissCharlotte, Jun 29, 2014
    First of all, I think you are very lucky to be cumming on average once a fortnight. I'm sure most submissives don't get to cum that often.

    A couple of ideas have come to me -
    1. Is that phrase on your hip permanent? Perhaps it could be.
    2. You seem quite hairy. Maybe a waxing is in order.
    3. Have your dog collar locked on you for a set time. You better hope your jacket will cover it.
    4. Publically buying ladies under garments for yourself and wearing them to work.
    5. Wearing adult diapers for 24 hours. You acted like a baby so...

    Will keep thinking. Hope that inspires your Mistress, and good luck to you.
     
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    #7 Deleted member 32299, Jun 30, 2014
    Forced ice bath or cold shower?
    Wearing a plug for an extended period of time?
     
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    #8 Pillowbiter, Jun 30, 2014
    Have her put a condom on you, Give you a nice handjob while she humiliates you, after you fill it, she removes it, puts a straw in it, and you slurp and swallow until its all gone, as she watches and humiliates you.
     
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    #9 Hers.to.play.with, Jul 1, 2014
    Hi

    She likes this very much, particularly the waxing and the tatoo idea, fortunately for me my current employment means means that these things aren't currently an option. Although I'm slightly worried she has put these ideas in the bank for future use when our situation changes.
    She wants me to thank you for your suggestions and would love to hear if you have any more. Currently on the suggestion of another member she has got me on a week long period of zero stimulus, she will not touch me, tease me, or have sex with me, I am restricted to watching her masturbate. It's proving very frustrating, I love watching her cum, but not being allowed to participate is driving me crazy. She has stressed however that this is only the start.

    Thanks for the replies
     
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    #10 Wendygirl, Jul 1, 2014
    Lol
    So why no waxing no body going to see you naked at work and if they do sooo what xx
    Ask Lucy aka @philfred
    Xx Wendy
     
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    #11 MissCharlotte, Jul 1, 2014
    I agree Wendy. I am now wondering what your job is and why you cant have a waxed or tattooed bum
     
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    #12 Max51, Jul 2, 2014
    My suggestion is to marry her. :)
     
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    #13 seasoned, Jul 2, 2014
    Now,now Max,that's a bit naughty.Is marrying his mistress and KH a punishment?or are you speaking from personal experience?
     
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    #14 seasoned, Jul 2, 2014
    @Hers.to.play.with :you seem to get a lot of orgasms(relatively speaking!)so I suggest that,if your mistress likes PIV sex, she turns your cock into a meat dildo with the help of numbing cream and prostate milking.Lots of fun for her and no cum for you...
     
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    #15 Caged Wolf, Jul 2, 2014
    i agree with Seasoned... a tube of Stud desensitizing spray and some Extends condoms (the ones with the nubing cream already in them) would fit perfectly with her zero stimulus plan... If you spray/spread the Stud on the entire penis, wait 5-10 minutes, then wrap it you can be numb for up to 6 hours.. Should be plenty of time for her to be totally satisfied and you to be severely frustrated.

    Ask me how I know... ;)
     
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    #16 Mistress linda and slave, Nov 2, 2014
    dont know how far youve gotten, but you are allowed way too many cums. if your kh desires sex that much, perhaps its time for cuckolding and keeping your little thing locked away.
     
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    #17 Hers.to.play.with, Nov 4, 2014
    You're not the first person to suggest she's been too kind. However since the original post in this thread she has become a lot stricter, and after reading this she has promised to be meaner still.

    Her current method for deciding if I am allowed to cum is that she has a bag full of black and white marbles, a white marbles means an orgasm for me, and the black represents another week of denial. She adds white marbles to the bag if I'm well behaved, and black if I'm bad. I am allowed to draw from the bag once a week blindfolded. There are currently 22 black marbles in the bag and 2 white. I think I may be waiting a while for my next orgasm.

    Regarding the cuckolding idea, it is something we've talked about, but we're not quite there yet. maybe in the future.
     
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    #18 Captured Pirate, Nov 4, 2014
    I wear shorts to work every day, and my legs are as smooth as those of the women I work with. No one cares. As a matter of fact, one woman told me she likes my legs and she decided to get her husband drunk and give him a sleeping pill so she could Nair him because she hates body hair and seeing mine like they are inspired her!
     
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    #19 dsinbraces, Nov 4, 2014
    Nothing like regular waxing including a Brazillian as a reminder of who is in control. Wax your legs and try wearing some hose under your slacks on your next deate night. Men love the feeling, once they experience it!!! dickie has been waxing for 7 years now, and makes appointemnts without being told. A nice manicure with top gloss is a great punishment for those just starting out and so worried about what others think...trust me, fewer people notice than you think, but you will be self-conscience of your femme tendencies.
    Mistress Suzan
     
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    #20 Captured Pirate, Nov 4, 2014
    As a matter of fact, a particularly good punishment would be her tying you down and using an epilator on your legs. That would be quite good.
     

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    #21 MsT'sSlave, Nov 5, 2014
    I showed this post to Ms. T tonight, she LOVED it! I am amazed at how well she's taken to this new lifestyle. May i follow you?
     
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    #22 MsT'sSlave, Nov 5, 2014
    Speaking of punishments, i was unlocked for my shower tonight and i was given 2 minutes to get my cage back on. 2 minutes didn't happen because i was too hard to get the ring on. Ms. T ordered me back into the shower - ICE COLD this time, for 30 seconds while she held the timer outside the shower glass. I have never been that cold! I think we've reached a new place in our relationship.
     
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    #23 jemima, Nov 5, 2014
    well @MsT'sSlave it is naughty to not get your cage back on quick but being in all cold water might make you poorly and catch cold. Cant you asks if you can get smacked instead of it.
     
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    #24 dsinbraces, Nov 5, 2014
    Agreed. dickie was required to purchase an epilator, and it is so amazing. And what I enjoy is how sensitive sissy is in different parts of the body when using it. Legs, not so bad, but the sides and chest require being restrained. And the end result is terrific. Great for spacing out time between waxing. A little pricey for some, but well worth the price and the torment that results!
     
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    #25 Captured Pirate, Nov 5, 2014
    I actually have been using it on myself. My arm are still hairy, she wants tthat to stay that way. Haven't mustered the courage to do my pits yet, still shaving them, but have epilated everywhere else myself. The groin area got a lot of numbing cream though. ;) It's painful, but perhaps self-epilating as I've done would be a good idea. With maybe mistress standing by with a crop to smack the wedding tackle if you hesitate too long in any one spot. That would be a deliciously agonizing punishment. ;-)
     
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