Hello, I am new here . I am in a cuckold/poly-relationship. My wife has a boyfriend who is physically and personally very attractive: he's nearly 10 years younger than her and very athletic and cute . He often stays at our house -- which becomes more and more like his place too. When he's here my wife and he always sleep in our bed and I have to sleep in the guest room. She usually puts me into lingerie during these nights and I can hear them making love to each other: sometimes I spy through the slit of the minimally open door how he pleasures her. These are the best moments I can think of. Recently we introduced chastity and flr/femdom into our relationship. I love (and hate, of course) the desperation of having my sexuality totally in her hands. Currently I am locked up since 7 days ... pure torture. She usually uses a 'wheel of fortune' to decide my intervals: if I behave well by doing chores I can remove some time. I still have 3 days in front of me. Don't know how to survive that My wife's boyfriend is not a usual bull: they are also emotionally or romantically involved. In many senses I am still the primary partner: we love each other very much, we live together, we share our finances and we share a fantastic history. In some senses though I became number two: he clearly gives her all the physical pleasure now (I have no right anymore to have intercourse with her, but I can please her in other ways still if he is not around), and he also gives her the emotional butterflies of having a crush or being more freshly in love. I love to share her like that and totally embrace my beta-roles in the triangle. It's a fantastic journey so far and we are all very fulfilled at the moment. Currently we are intensifying my sub-role with chastity, by feminising me and letting her slip more into a femdom role towards me. She says she likes the attention she gets like that and me doing chores ... but sometimes I can be a bit overwhelming cause of being very enthusiastic about it all. We do not have any contacts with other people in similar relationships. That's why I joined this forum: to find similar people, exchange experiences and understanding. Sometimes it can feel very lonely not knowing other kinksters.