I've seen a few posts lately from Dommes offering online chastity via chaster etc combining it with parental controls on smart devices. Not something I'd really considered before but at a glance it offers an added level of control. It's got something I've thought about before but have become ever curious about as I've delved into it these last few days. I'm not sure if those is something that has come about off the back of people who grew up with these controls imposed. It wasn't really a thing for me growing up. The internet was new so I had unfiltered access when I could get online. I've been trialling such an app (Kidslox) on myself and it has taught me that I spend far too much time on my phone and that I'd probably throw a tantrum if my apps were all disabled by a dominant I'm not sure it's something I'd use with online play due to privacy and such, at least not without having built a great deal of trust. The apps track location and search history as well as taking screenshots. I was quite surprised to see a screenshot from my online banking in my activity report. All my activity was captured. Naughty searches were flagged. I could see see it adding an interesting additional power dynamic though. One keyholder I've found on discord does seem to maintain control of her subjects even when unlocked and it is extra encouragement to relock without a fuss I'm just curious as to whether people use these controls here be it in real life or online chastity play? Has it proved beneficial? I genuinely think for my part I'd benefit from limited screen time but total loss of functionality is a no go for many scenarios when out and about.
Definitely. I think I've been quite obsessive with the idea over the last few days. To date all my chastity has been online. There's not necessarily any control left over once I'm free. The idea of an added level of control is both alluring and terrifying at the same time.
My Miss took my phone once and limited screen time to 30 minutes a day (45 on weekends). It was fun for some time as I had to plan my phone use. Then I found a way to hack it, so I use it as I want again. She was not pleased though.
Mistress tooked my phone off me for ages cos i was text Her a lot when She was at work. i got one now tho cos i dont do that no more and i love play games on my phone when i got chance.
I think it's a fun idea but definitely something that needs negotiation. There are things I can't do without such as messaging. But I would benefit from having limited use of social media. Someone planted the seed last week and I'm still obsessing over the idea.
My wife hasn’t limited screen time nor blocked apps but she has turned on the content filter on my iPhone. Now if I try to navigate to a porn website it’s blocked. It’s damn near impossible to find a website or image of a woman in anything more provocative than a bikini. I can’t see naked women or watch porn and that keeps my thoughts more pure and directed at my wife. This may be an option for you if you want access to your phone but have the desire to be restricted.
I really want to see the settings to accomplish that if it is possible. I am busy to make those settings but sometimes a website comes thru. I need to search everything on the interweb, adresses, routes, contacts and that kind of stuff, but porn, sexshops naked women etc had to blocked. You can give in on a iPhone the websites you want to block, but it is impossible to enter millions of websites. Or can you give in a keyword with a joker to block in general a type of websites?
I been noticing the same. Just haven’t found a software I like. The ones that most use has a lot of control they can monitor everything probably why they are so popular. It can monitor calls, txt, activity. So the domme has total control. Most popular is from what I have seen is https://www.qustodio.com/
I did look at that. They can delete contacts and stuff with that one. Very powerful. I might give that a go since my trial of Kidslox has expired. I'm not sure I'd want someone to be able to mess with my contacts and messages though. That would definitely be a level of trust and control handed to someone with which I had a good relationship Kidslox is a good middle ground from the testing I've done. It can lock the phone down and reports usage but they can't delete anything. It takes periodic screenshots so they can see what you're doing but not all apps allow that anyway. Some, but not all banking apps block screenshots. Qustodio can also restrict other devices as well so it's probably a good all rounder.
Kidslox is it good when you do self lockup? I mean if someone isn’t monitoring you. Think it was xxxchruch that sent a weekly email to the one in charge with every adult content you visited. Potentially someone could extend your lockup time based on how many times you broken the rule it
Ideally it would be controlled by someone else. I just wanted to get a grasp of how it works before I contemplate letting someone else do it. Knowing how the backend of it works from their side is also good for discussing exceptions. In my case I'm happy to have social media taken away and safe search enabled for the web browsers and such as well as entertainment apps. I wouldn't want to be locked out of messaging platforms like WhatsApp as these have superceded normal text messaging (which Kidslox doesn't block). I'd also want to ensure I can still use things like Google maps and banking apps. When managing myself I was terrible for just adding an extra hour of screen time here and there. I was a pushover on myself
Same here I want to be able to txt etc. Just want to be able to control the more “adult stuff”. I mean WhatsApp etc. Makes no sense to block I mean could be some critical stuff to keep in contact. I mean it’s nice that someone can control it. I do the same download a try it first. I haven’t found the ideal that give rights to the right things and works too. Should add some sort of element of excitement too. Got curious to try kidslox too
The only thing with kidslox is you can block all adult pages, but you can not whitelist a few websites such as chastitymansion. there a a few websites where you should go on. Most of them blockers it’s all or nothing. That’s my problem….
Looks like you can get a 30 day trial of Qustodio here: https://www.qustodio.com/en/30-free...d3335885ea809fad22e9aae31c54&utm_content=text
I might try it later. That's also a good hefty trial period for a dominant to pick up and mess with their subjects
I eventually tried Kidslox with a domme. I had my phone locked down for a good two months. It definitely has pros and cons. Sometimes the lockdowns are just impractical. It can be stressfu not knowing if your phone is going to go into lockdown when you need to use digital tickets to get in somewhere It was good for keeping me mindful of screentime and stopping me from being such an online perv. Chastity mansion was off limits with it though. I've just started fiddling around with another app called Salfeld child control. This one is really powerful and so far I've not been able to remove it without a password, so definitely more secure... the scary thing is that it can lock your phone down to such a point that all you can do is receive calls. There's a month free trial of that if anyone is interested in giving it a go. I'm getting tempted to try it all again
Madam have never been bothered about me looking at porn, probably because we look at a lot of it together, it amuses her as it turns me on and I cannot do anything about it! bit she does know all my passwords and codes, and she will check through my phone at times, mainly so she can humiliate me over the porn I’m looking at, but I also think it’s subconsciously because her previous partner was unfaithful.
My Mistress and I have agreed that I should have an ap on my phone to prevent porn viewing. I've gone almost 3 weeks on the honor system, but I know it's only a matter of time. Do these aps delete existing content, bookmarks, pictures etc? She is gradually going through my favorite lists to look at what I saved for links and logging in/changing my passwords as she goes. She doesn't want those going away. If I can have the bookmarks but can't open the sites without her allowing it, that would be ideal. Thanks