Earlier this week was the one year anniversary of my last full orgasmic ejaculation. In the past year I have been allowed 2 ruined orgasms with the chastity device removed, and 3 or 4 sissygasms with the device on. A month or so ago I told my wife that I desired a full orgasm. I did not get one and that just made me feel self centered and rresentful so yesterday I told her that I thought continued denial was better for our relationship anad she smiled
I would love for my wife to make my denial permanent with sissgasms being my only release Does anyone actually practice this or is it just a fantasy?
This morning my wife and I agreed no more sissygasms for me either (we don' use that word but that's how I think of it to myself).
Congratulations! Many of us are seeking your level of commitment. Personally, I think your caged spurts (sissiegasms) are acceptable -- a fully chaste husband can rightfully be expected by his wife not to release semen while erect, but it may reinforce his submissiveness and feelings of loss of lameness to release, and only release, while constrained and caged. Or maybe I'm just holding on to that last little hope of "male" emission.
I've tried to go without cumming and made it 145 days, but without some serious help from a stern Mistress and a good cage I can wear 24/7, it's very difficult. Going pussy-free is easy if I'm restricted to hand jobs once every 4 to 8 weeks, but orgasm-free is much harder.
Thank you for both of your thoughtful comments and encouragement My Wife has been on a vacation since last week (I I'll post about that in cuckold forum). On the weekend I was stimulating myself with an njoy wand and although I intended not to cum I had a sissygaem (while caged). I think the ideal of never having even a sissygasm is probably unattainable. Will talk about with my Wife when she returns.
R2002, you da man! Or you da whatever. Lol. Like Retrix said, nice level of commitment there. The more time passes, the more you love being locked in a cage. Hey, nrbill, 145 is pretty good. Agree that it is just not possible without a cage. O-Free ain't so bad though, at least for me.
Wow, you guys are hardcore. I'm at 11 days, the longest I'll ever have gone. Although Princess is getting into this and may take it longer. I also have not inside my wife since November.
Thanks and I'll go with "da whatever" Seriously, chastity saved my marriage and had made me happier and healthier (that would be another post)