Hi everyone, I guess I am going to complain and/or brag a bit. I hope you all do not mind. Master and I have been doing chastity for about 3 years now. It has certainly been an up and down experience for both of us. Her and I are not sexually active with each other. Our relationship is asexual but there is definately a level of intimacy. For chastity, it has been an off and on again kind of thing. I am vanilla married and my wife is aware of my other relationship. As such for the first 2 years, I was in chastity without a device. Master's rule has been and still is that I am the one being denied, if my wife wants sex, I am not to deny her. I do not cheat on that rule or try to bypass my agreement with Master by engaging in sex with my wife. I committed to my denial and will not try to use that loophole. I personally get more out of masturbation than PIV sex. I always have. Well, fast forward to this last year. I bought a custom Steelworxx Steelheart. It is amazingly comfortable. My wife always knew about my chastity desires but just was not into it. Well, I asked her if she minded that I wear a device all the time. My wife was fine with it. I reported back to Master and "lock it up!" For the better part of the last year, I have known the inside of the metal cage more than not. Typically Master would grant me permission to masturbate about every 10 or so days. Sometimes as much as once a week and the longest I have gone was 23 days. Well November marked Master and I 3rd anniversary together. I offered her to endure denial between Thanksgiving day, our anniversary, and Christmas as a gift of endurance for our anniversary. She accepted. I have not had any sex with my wife either, just because it hasn't happened. *another story* Well, because I had been a chronic masturbator, I never discovered the pleasure of prostate massage. One of Master's rules are that when I am video gaming I am to wear a butt plug. Since it had been so long since I masturbated, I felt this strange feeling while rocking around on my Njoy 2.0. OMG.. Did I just have an orgasm? No, it sort of felt like one but I was soft. I think I discovered milking! Well, I of course had to report this to Master. She was not at all mad. She was actually happy to hear this. She has always encouraged that I do play with my ass. It serves to tease me more. So discussing this discovery with Master the other day, she was so happy that I now can milk myself so there is no need for any pleasurable touching of what I consider HER dick. Before this discovery, I planned to beg for a release on New Years Day. During our discussion yesterday she made it clear that she is happy that I can relieve some built up cum without her having to allow me to experience an orgasm so I will not be out of my metal prison any time soon. As I write this, it is now 36 days since I have had an orgasm. My cage is not always on for other reasons, career related. I will say that I have not even seen it in 14 days! Please be careful what you wish for. I do not regret where I sit today but I will pout about it. I am a very lucky slave. *incase you are wondering, no Master is not on this site*