My wife agreed to do chastity a few weeks ago. I started when she got her period it was going well and 5 days into it she liked how i was doing and i was happy to please her, she wanted to have sex and it was good. After that i didnt go back into chastity until today (2 days after). Should she had not unlocked me and had sex and let me release? She likes PIV. Should i have told her for me to not come? Need advice. We are new to this and she loves the idea of my attention around the house and towards her. As well as no porn. What suggestions would you have. We are not looking for the extreme.
It’s what works for you and your relationship! Was she displeased with you and your attitude in the last 2 days? Did it upset her in any way? Would you have prefered to have been locked up again as soon as you had pleased her? The best advice i can give is to ask her! Talk to her about it! If you would have prefered to have been locked up again right away, then say that, communication is key!
It's best to take it slowly, but also to provide her with loving feedback. Let her know that it's ok to make you wait longer, if she likes your attitude and attention ... but that it's up to her and you're just hoping for her guidance as she figures out what *she* likes.
Communicate and empower her and let her lead. Not just my experience but also what I read here 99% of the time. You don't tell us a lot about what you are hoping to get from it, or the background (was she reluctant, excited, did she even know about chastity before hand). That would all help with specific advice but getting her turned on to take the lead seems to always end up somewhere good (it has been very scary in my case, LOL, but that is a bit extreme and still very, very good). And if it is coming from you, not her, same advice but BE SUPER PATIENT. Good luck!
Take it slowly.. d male chastity journey is exciting.. theres no definte end once it begins.. especialy with a partner tat participates in it..u r very lucky.. women could b just being themsef.. somtimes open comunication may not work too.. they may view sex n sexual satisfaction a dirty thing.. but in al things d male shd alway seek her aproval.. yes u could b rite in ofering further sacrifice.. ensuring she gets orgasm oraly n mayb frm piv but w/o u having it.. n ofer to b locked right after shes done.. ok, unles she wants som warm ejaculation.. like most women..