New, looking for a Keyholder

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    Hi. I'm new to chastity, but have seen pro doms in the past. Giving up more control is very exciting to me.
    I just bought a chastity cage, and am looking for a Keyholder. Local would be preferred (Cleveland/ Akron ohio) but I'll consider a remote arrangement.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome and good luck
     
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    Welcome to our community. Enjoy.
     
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    So, I received my cage this afternoon. I spent about 15 minutes going through the pieces, then started trying the four solid rings. Starting with the largest, which went on OK, but I couldn't get the next smaller size on at all. So I went with the largest ring, then on to the cage.

    This took a lot fiddling to avoid pinching anything, but I finally got the two pieces together and locked. Of course, there were a lot of new sensations, but nothing bad or even uncomfortable.

    If there was one issue that I think I'll have trouble adapting to, it's that this cage forced everything down between my legs, and spread my balls apart quite a bit. The result is that I felt I had to walk somewhat bowlegged. Otherwise, there was too much contact between my balls and my thighs. After about 90 minutes, I took it off, and now I'm writing this.

    So, do I get used to this? Is there a fit or style issue with my cage?
     
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    Hi and welcome
     
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    I am in the same position as you. I do not have a KH and lock myself. I have found that getting a device that fits properly is the most important step in being locked up. If it is uncomfortable or even sore you will surely remove it. Getting the right fit of ring and girth and length of cage, using a metal cage or solid plastic is a bit of learning by experience. Once you find a cage that is not too uncomfortable, you will become used to wearing it over time - but it takes time to adjust.
     
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    I went through a few cages before settling on my current one...HT V5 Nub. many of the "cheaper" ones you see on Amazon or elsewhere seem to not be of very good fit or finish. some have rough edges and sticky locks/etc.

    I went through the CB6k and CB3k which were good, different ring fit, but occasionally had a pullout or two which was not fun over long lock periods. I went to the HT5 Nano and then Nub now and have worn it for LONG (months at a time) periods with no issues.

    Also if you are looking for KH and online works for you there is a discord channel Chastiy Maze I use with my KH. If you are interested I can send you an invite to that channel. Lots of great chastity info and KH there too
     
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    Thanks for the replies all. And yes, tangosub,

    Yes tangosub, please send an invite.
     
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    Welcome to the group Sinbad.
     
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