Hi everyone, I'm relatively new to this site and like others found my way here from the chastitylifestyle.com site. I am enjoying this site very much. Thank you Mistress Watchful and pet! I have a real interest in chastity and would like to involve myself more in this lifestyle. Unfortunately my wife is not really "into it" although she does tolerate me locking myself up ocassionally. She mentioned that she likes the attention she receives when I am locked up but can't stand the idea of having my cock locked up long term as she really enjoys penetration. I often lock myself up at night when I get home from work or on weekends but it usually comes off after I give her a massage and she gets in the mood. I bought her the book "Chastity - A Keholders Guide" to read around Christmas but so far she hasn't opened it up. I've brought up the subject to her a few times and mentioned that it would give her an insight into how I'm thinking but I think she's really afraid to read it because in her eyes that is too kinky. Anyhow here's the idea I'm throwing out for discussion....I need to lose 40-50 lbs. and have tried to do so before. My wife is an EXCELLENT cook and it seems like I just can't lose weight because she always is making something that is very tempting. So, I can't really get too much support from her in losing weight. Maybe that is an excuse because it really should be me that puts forth all of the effort and I should be able to resist temptation. Anyhow, I was toying with the idea of locking myself up and finding someone to hold the key (or placing it away from the house) so I can't get out until I've lost 10 lbs. Then I would be unlocked for a few days and locked again until I've lost another 10. I would definitely have an incentive to lose weight and my wife would definitely have an incentive to help me. And I'm thinking that while my lockup takes place, maybe she would find out that the lifestyle is something she really enjoys. Do you think it would be healthy to push her into this a little more than what she really wants now? I'm sure that if she absolutely objected that it would get unlocked right away. I guess this is topping from the bottom but I'm just thinking that sometimes people try things that they really don't want to and find they like them. Anyhow, everyone's comments good or bad are welcomed!