My story is probably not as excited as many. I am 55 years old and have a very keen interested in chastity and tease/orgasm denial. Today is day 19 since my last orgasm, since then I have given my wife three full bidy massages, numerous foot massages and 20 orgasms, mostly by mouth but some by either a Magic Wand or intercourse. My wife prefers not to use a Chastity belt (device) but use the honor system. I am locked only if she goes out or I am away on a business trip. She likes intercourse and wants my cock available. When it has been a couple of weeks I prefer woman on top position as I find it easier not to come but she controls the position and if she wants oral, intercourse or magic wand. Many times I need to think about something else, the other day after she was on top and came twice she asked me if I had thought about her mother which is what I use when I am desperate to not come. When we were first married my wife sent me to both massage school and cooking classes. She gets a full body massage weekly (an hour and half minimum) and I do most of the cooking. Like I said not that exciting but it works for us. She decides or orgasms, two days I know I will be allowed are my birthday and our anniversary which is coming up less than a month, if I make it that long.