My first lockee

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    Hello all,
    another special day for me: today I'm going to meet my first ever lockee, the one that - without knowing it - has opened Pandora's box and started all of this.
    He's coming from Chicago, US semi-on purpose, and we'll finally meet later on. He got locked up as soon as he landed and MAYBE will be unlocked later. Let's see how my mood goes.

    Although I haven't locked him up in quite some time as I feel he's not as serious as I require (plus, he plays hockey on a semi pro level and neither of us feel comfortable with him playing caged); however, he's important for my personal birth and growth as a kh, and I am extremely excited about all of this!

    So, fun times ahead for me and most likely, an update for you soon!

    Thanks for reading :)
    G*

    p.s.: this is my 5th wearer coming over to meet his domme and kh <3
     
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    Sounds great enjoy the visit
     
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    yeah I thought I was having a deja vu. I vaguely remember reading a post of yours like this before then I read your p.s that it is a different person coming to see you.

    have blast (safely)!
     
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    When you hold keys for different men all over the world, if you do a good job I guess, it’s likely to happen :)
    Thanks!
     
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    and next month you are going to have another one of those magic day
     
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    just one? :p
     
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    more than
     
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    hope it goes well.
     
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    i serch a keyholder too:)
     
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    It seems strange to me not being reasonably close to your keyholder? I guess the dynamics are differant? When locked I am more submissive and desparate to please my owner/Mistress in the hope of some release, but this needs plenty of contact and ability to serve her (domestic chores,massage etc). How does this work long distance?
     
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    Awesome! Hot post! Lucky him!
     
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    Mistress,
    You are from Amsterdam, NL?
    I am Dutch as well.
    Can you provide me more about your Key-Holding-Service?
    Thank you in advance.
     
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    Of course the dynamics are totally different than what you're used to when you live with your keyholder. When you don't, a lot of the benefits the KH has get lost, like serving, in the way you feel compelled to cater to your own Mistress; if applicable, other ways to serve can be agreed upon.
    The desperation and submissiveness are felt by the wearer just as like. Plenty of contact happens quite the same, just not the physical one (and believe me, there's absolutely no problem with that).

    And when it happens, the coolest part of the long distance is the meeting. As I said, I've had this opportunity multiple times and am always open to them. I won't get into the details of what those encounters entail as it so much varies but I can say that they are always very emotionally loaded, even if no intimate involvement ends up happening.
    I hope this replies your question :)

    G*
     
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    Please contact me privately, bedankt.
     
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    I hope this replies your question :)

    G
    Yes thankyou TheMinistress Grace
    john
     
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    dank U wel.
    ik heb een conversatie met U gestart, subject: "Verzoek om informatie".
     
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    Please make your forum posts in english - we can't moderate the site if we don't speak the language : )
     
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    Now in English:
    I have started a conversation, with You, Ministress Grace.
     
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    I was made notice that I gave no updates about the meeting with my first lockee and I didn't like the feeling of leaving things hanging so here's how the story went.

    Chip (not his real name) is a total stud in his late 20's and much better looking in person than in pictures. He locked himself up immediately after landing and spent the day wandering town caged in a steel CB.
    I made sure to tease him enough while I was hoping he ran into some gorgeous Dutch girl or ended up in the Right Light District.. not reporting anything of the kind, I assumed I was the only tease of the day. Which of course I didn't mind at all.
    A detail that needs mentioning is that he was chaste for a week under my control while in Chicago and stayed locked whenever he could during his trip to Europe (he stopped in London before coming here).

    So we met. As it was already late, instead of going to some bar, we met at his place and he handed the key over to me immediately - which went to my necklace as quickly. We started chatting and it really felt incredible also for me to be sitting in the same place and talking live in the same time zone but while I was both excited and relaxed, he was totally nervous. To make it worse immediately, I soon punched his crotch gently with no notice and my steel ring made a very peculiar sound against his steel cage through denim. I eventually left my ring behind.

    Without getting into too much detail, he got blindfolded, (maybe a bit heavily) bound and played with, humiliated, teased and denied. Apparently, most of play was hardcore for him - I got to know after and not without concerns from me.

    He avoided contact for a couple of days after telling me so and I was afraid I had failed on giving aftercare or simply been "too much". I guess he only needed to process the whole lot as, after, he returned to me with the same spirit I used to know, stating he had fun and discovered a lot and that everything was fine. That reassured me quite much and sealed the experience as a very positive one.

    Now, I'm sure EVERYBODY is wondering about the release, right?
    So, well... keep wondering!

    G*
     
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    very nice report
     
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    Ministress
    Thank you for the update
     
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    Ha Ha, sounds like a fun meeting, You sound just the Mistress to stretch his limits. I am curious how long you will make him wait for release?Is this his first time in chastity?
     
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    Oh no, it’s not! Again, he was my first lockee and I have been around enough.
    But figure this: you’re caged “in the name” of somebody you never saw in 3D... and then you meet her, after playing online. Figure that: how would you feel?

    How would any of you who’s reading, feel?
     
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    Excited, anxious, eager to please, but a little fearful of disappointing my Mistress, and perhaps praying for release and relief.
     
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