If you have read my profile then you know I serve two: My long time Mistress/Wife and my on-line Key Holder. I started locking years ago when Mistress/Wife surprised me with a CB6000 cage on one of her toy orders, likely as much as tease then anything serious. We tried many short locks of a hours and a day or so. Nothing too serious. I had always been more submissive and tended gravitate towards femdom as my favorite times. While Mistress/Wife would never be mistaken though for a hardcore Dom by any means, she did her part to make sure I understood what a Submissive/FLR role meant for me. I started doing “maid” days fully dressed nose to toes for Mistress/wife which I found very fulfilling. When I was doing chores as the maid, I became totally immersed in the role. My attire collection grew quickly as did our toy/bdsm collection. Mistress/Wife did have her “switch” times when I was taking care of her. When she would take care of me, we had some intense (for me) scenes one of which I posted a photo of in my profile with our pillory setup. Eventually I found a Discord group that comprised Keyholder/lockee and the ChastiSafe app. There are many experienced KH there who run the gambit from light to hard Dom KH. I started with one KH for about a year that was very good. She, as with most KH there are very strict on orgasm denial. My KH did not do findom which I liked but also gave her lockees a lot of personal attention. My locks and as you can see in some of my photos required a variety of bdsm task to earn credits towards orgasm rewards. I experienced a lot of new things with her but generally all the tasks were about 1 hour at most. My Mistress/Wife was very accepting as long as I always assured her needs were met when ever she required me to take care of her. Mistress/Wife even started to help out with many of the KH tasks. Most locks ran 1-3 months with brief breaks where any orgasms earned could be cashed in. I moved to another KH on the same service due to geography reasons. My new KH incorporated more edging, teasing and bondage tasks. However less soft bdsm. Her tasks were more in femdom then general BDSM though when they were assigned. After doing a few locks over 3 month period to gain trust on both sides, my KH offered me a contract lock. This was an honor as none of her other lockees were under contract locks. This would give her much more control and flexibility over me. She incorporated my Mistress/Wife interests into some parts where compliance with rules and punishments are administered. Mistress/Wife will also hold the emergency key that can only be given to on consent from the KH. The contract was very specific, detailed and strict. Some of the stipulations and requirements my KH included: At the Keyholder’s discretion, the chaste may require tasks or punishments to attach/wear/place remotely controlled toys such as vibrators and/or estim/electro pads anywhere on Chaste person. The Chaste maybe required to spend any duration of time in public for such activities. The Keyholder may direct the remote control of all toys for herself, a known user community, or an anonymous interested public at any time for any duration that may extend a full day. Use of toys may go through “quiet” periods in a given day, but may only be terminated and removed at the direction of the Keyholder. The Keyholder may require additional female attire above the normal outside day wear. At the KH discretion, the chaste shall wear female attire in accordance with the Dressing Directions Normal Day wear (outside of the home) under everyday (boy) clothes The Chaste shall wear female panties, cincher/shapeware brief, or girdle. This is the minimum requirement. Exceptions are doctor visits The Chaste will were tights/hose/stockings At the KH discretion the Chaste will also wear a corset/waist cincher and/or a bra At Home wear (inside the home, evenings, casual) The Chaste shall wear female casual wear including leotards, (with or without leggings/pantyhose/tights/stockings), catsuits, skirts, or anything else deemed appropriate by the KH. At the KH discretion the Chaste will also wear a corset/waist cincher and/or a bra Wigs and makeup are not required but may be worn. At the KH discretion the Chaste will also wear high heeled (3 inch or higher) shoes for a period time deemed appropriate. Full Dress At the KH desire, the Chaste shall completely dress in female attire for a period of time defined by the KH.. Attire may include house maid, French maid, bunny costumes, or dresses and must include all appropriate accessories (wig, hose, shoes, bows etc.). Makeup May be worn as required. If assigned as day of chores by Mistress/Wife or Keyholder, Chaste will perform add chores/work in full maid dress I have heard of contracts for slaves but had not seen one for locking before. Certainly not this detailed and specific. I knew this would be a big step for me and push limits. I signed the contract with a 2 month binding time which could go a lot longer if I don’t keep the KH happy and don’t meet certain weight loss requirements on time. The first thing I found was the lock allowed a hygiene break every 5 days for 10 minutes. It also required a “check in” on the lock every 10 days. Missing/late to either puts me in “pillory” which is a set of options for other lockees and KH to vote on with varying degrees of punishments. The lock also has a daily task roller which can be as simple as watch porn for an hour and edge to tie myself in a chair (Mistress/Wife ensures I am tied/no escape) and run a separate bondage lock that could go 1-3 hours. In addition to all of the daily tasks and potential pillory punishments, the KH can at any time assign any task or punishment for any reason or no reason at all. So going forward I will update significant milestones in the lock and with my KH to share with everyone here.
UPDATE to my lock...First big task from my KH: I am almost 2 weeks into my contract lock with my KH. She assigned me my first big task for the weekend. I was to start gagged, dressed, create a scene, run a bondage lock timer and then report/recap in detail to all her lockees on ChastiSafe. I had no idea what the duration would be but the name “weekend challenge” was a good indicator. It turned out to run just under 36 hours. One unusual aspect as I think back was the time of the lock was given right up front. Almost all the locks I have had the end timer has been hidden from me. I started Friday evening for me which meant I would ultimately spend 2 nights in the scene. I started out dressed in a bunny outfit. The complete dress started with a white bra and body shaper brief, a white mid-sized corset, shimmery shear tights, white body suit over everything, black gloves, and 3.5 inch black stiletto heels. I added a med length wavy hair brownish wig to complete my outfit. The lock required a gag to start and then create the rest of the scenario. Starting out I used a small penis gag, locking police style handcuffs, and locked ankle cuffs. I also added a med size butt plug which probably turned out to be mistake given the length of the lock. I had never worn a gag or plug more than a few hours in the past. I didn’t think about that till I was well into the scene. Before evening bed the first night, Mistress/Wife required I do my regular evening kitchen cleaning and breakfast morning prep. Being hand and ankle cuffed/locked took me 2-3 times longer to clean kitchen, dishes, prep coffee for morning and tidy up. I slept as I started out, locked/plugged and added a blindfold. As an added tease, Mistress/Wife had me put estim pads on my bottom and around my cage area. The Coyote estim was then set med to low on Xtoys app and published for community play. Throughout the night I would be woken up at various times by controllers who varied estim from mild to a shock/zap and then leave. This took place about 4-5 times and it would take me I estimate 10-15 min get back to sleep. Saturday morning I was allowed a 20 min strip/cleaning-clean out/bathroom/shower and then I redressed as before, including plug and corset, laced tight of course, but without the bodysuit, gag and wig. Mistress/Wife had some errands we needed to do so wore “day” clothes over my outfit. Side not, I haven’t reached a point where I can regularly pass in public dressed so at this time, I don’t go out fully dressed in feminine attire. We were out about in public 3-4 hours and had lunch. After arriving back home I removed my day clothes and added a top and short skirt for the rest of the day. I spent the evening doing various chores and cleaning locked at ankles and wrists again with a gag back in. Another night ahead. Again I add estim/pads/setup this time with a small vibrator too on my cage. As with the night prior, it was set up for the Xtoys community to play with. Most controllers used the estim again quite intensely. The vibrator was never strong enough or used enough to do more than a brief distraction from the estim work. I should point out by this time I had worn the plug and the corset well almost 24 hours (minus my shower in the morning), new records for me and I can tell you I sure felt it. I was very sore already in my rear but oddly I had gotten used to the corset limiting my movements somewhat and being very tight. Sunday morning the lock completed. I was still trying to sleep and hopefully no more controllers hitting me on Xtoys when it finished. Eventually though I saw it and opened the lock. After a welcome long shower I was done with the task. I had never done a scene that ran this long. The extended plug and corset time really added to focus and fun. I surprised myself on those two parts. I updated the community per required. My KH said she was pleased with how everything went. I guess as to show me how much she froze my lock timer for the last 20 hours meaning it will add to the end time until she restarts the countdown again. I am back to “just” the daily task and daily expected dressing requirements for now. Looking forward to me next big task. Already finding new limits to my submissive side.
@TangoSub Thank you so much for sharing the details of your current situation and arrangement. I found it very interesting and yes also exciting to read. Sounds like you, and your Wife and KH are having a lot of fun, and growing in your various relationship roles, and of course your sissy training. I wish you the best of luck and hope to continue to read about your ongoing evolution and tasks.
Nice reading of this story! Thanks for sharing..... I only questioning myself, what kind of "time lock" you are using?
My KH has me on a time lock in ChastiSafe. It will run for the 2 months barring any extensions/etc. At the end of 2 months if the lock "opens" I will get the combination to open the lock box that has the key for my cage. That is of course unless my KH decides to extend the lock for any or no reason at all. You can see i have "Checkin" where I have to lock in at a specific time with KH or I can get a Pillory which is an open vote with her lockees on punishments. The lock also has Hygiene and Task roller associated with it.
THAT'S very nice! It's a nice time lock. And you made a picture of you're lockbox without seeing the combination?
I blocked out my KH because I didnt ask her first if I could share that part. I will never see the combination of the lock box the key is in until she grants me a release for hygiene or completing this lock...I guess I should say "IF" she grants me release
Update: I thought my weekend task was going to be easier this week, My KH gave me instruction that I was to be dressed, plugged, gagged, and tied to a chair for a random time determined by 1 of 3 timer locks. I was to make the choice. The wild card: There was to be vibrators in butt and on my cage set to medium that would run the duration of the timer lock. If I should do anything more then leak a bit, there would be additional task and punishment. Sounded easy enough. Most of my KH locks like this are an 60-90 min. I was all set up. Lovense Hush in bottom, Dolce vibe wrapped around my cage, Lush vibe on the head of my cage. All set to med. Once I was tied down to the chari tightly, gagged, blindfolded, Mistress/Wife selected one of the three lccks. I heard say "3 and half hours?" .... i wasnt sure I could hold out that long. Well at the end of the 3.5 hours, the vibrators were doen and so was I. I told KH i had failed to not restrain and survive her "challenge". I was told the next day would be spent in maid dress, plugged, gagged, cleaning all day, handcuffed. That was not easy although I probably got off lightly this time.
This weekend as a task or I guess punishment....I did miss a check in time with my online KH this week, so punishment I am sure.... I was instructed to put estim pads on my bottom and around my balls below my cage. I was also told to add a vibrator to my cage. I connected both to the Xtoys app and attached them to a script that had a wheel you would spin. The choices were vibrate 100% for 10 sec or vibrate 50% for 20 seconds or shock both front and back at 100% for 5 seconds or shock at 50% for 10 seconds. There was also one lower vibe but I dont recall. I then was told to "advertise" it to the xtoys community for the evening. Basically I never knew when someone spun the wheel. It would just start the vibe or I would get a "shocking" surprise. After a few hours trying to get chores done and other tasks, I was starting to get a bit twitchy I think. I guess I wont miss any more check in times. She also extended my lock time for any thought of release. Its no longer 2 months but now 3 months. On the bright side today Mistress/Wife was very pleased with my efforts to satisfy her. I lost count of her orgasms but she was very happy and sleepy after. She even grabbed my caged and teased for awhile after. A good afternoon for sure!