Well we are about a month into this and my wife/KH seems to be thoroughly enjoying being in control and requiring daily foot massages and sometimes multiple whole body erotic massages daily. I’m required to attend to her pleasure caged of course and completely naked. I am gone part of the week for work but while I’m home I’m to pleasure her whenever she decides she wants me to. It’s very stimulating and I drip almost constantly. She does require me to uncage and perform piv sex telling me “don’t you cum” which makes things more interesting. After three to four days of this over a weekend and during one of those weeks I was on vacation I noticed that when she did want me to cum (and of course lick and clean up afterwards) I struggled to and even had trouble getting and staying hard after removing my cage. Days of prolonged stimulation seem to create a problem for me. I am on the older side of things at 66 but we have always had a close relationship, been very intimate with great communication so I’m not sure if this is normal or what. Being denied for 3-4 days seems to cause me to not be able to perform when she wants me to. Maybe I’m just worn out from days of caged erections and hours of stimulation. Has anyone else experienced this type of situation from caged denial to uncaged performance? Let me know what your experiences have been with this.
I know as a rule of thumb for general penis health, should be allowed a full erection once a week or so. That being said every one is different, and then there's your age to consider, and possibly other health issues that could make getting an erection more difficult. Maybe during those teasing sessions, be uncaged for some of them so your penis can go full steam ahead and not have to fight against a cage. I'm sure always fighting a losing battle against the cage will no doubt create issues with erections over time. So like I said try being teased without the cage ever so often and allow yourself to get fully erect, doesn't mean you get to orgasm just means the teasing will be that much more worse or better (depending on how you look at it) for you.
I guess kind of like stamina training. But instead of edging you to increase time before you orgasm it's strength training for your penis so that you can get fuller longer lasting erections. Prob both stamina and strength training at the same time
I’m a tad older, and have found Cialis to be of great benefit for the past few years, well before chastity. Talk to your doctor.