My K/H has suggested that instead of just looking and watching I should start participating; So I am introducing myself. I your standard run of the mill fifty one year old male who is into exploring various kinks. Early last year it was suggested that I should try chastity so I approached my wife (K/H) and presented the idea to her. A couple of discussions later we were the proud owners of a metal ring cage. My K/H is not a dom and this is not a lifestyle for us but something to enhance our mutual play and interactions. That being said - once the lock clicks shut, all the standards you would expect are applied. The first test run wasn't much to talk about, lasted all of a few days and was annoying to me and annoying to her. We re-evaluated and adjusted some things, purchased a resin cage to replace the heavy metal cage and tried again. 2nd time around we never discussed a length of time or release date so she ended up keeping me locked for three weeks! It was pretty intense. Took a break from the cage and then we did Locktober which also included scheduled items like days to wear plugs, required shaving, sissyfication etc. By the end of it I would have done anything she wanted and was afraid she was going to take it into NO-vember. Which brings us to now. On Valentines Day she locked me up. We have a running bet of who is going to break first - me or her. The duration is set at six months based on a dice roll. She has six months to get me to cry uncle/tap out, I have six months to convince her she wants the cage off. So far I am doing pretty good.......
Well it has been interesting and very frustrating. This afternoon, since we are both working from home, she decided that a thirty minute session of porn with a vibrator under the cage was needed. Almost lost it a couple of times which would have been bad. It is the small things like that... keeps me on the edge and on my toes, I never know when she is going to decide that she wants to do something or wants me to do something to amuse her.
Welcome! Be patient and obedient and you will have an incredible physical, emotional and spiritual journey.
Welcome! How can you handle that long in a resin cage without being released for cleaning? I can hardly exceed three days taking very good care of hygiene...
Resin cage - showering is easy with it and every fifth day or so it comes off for a more in depth cleaning and inspection. Metal cage - comes off every third day for a shower before going back on. Currently in a metal cage since the ring on my resin cage cracked and I need to get a replacement.
Hello welcome to chastity mansion. Hope you enjoy it and get everything you want out of it and more.!! Sounds like you two are having alot of fun.!!
I had the impression that metal cage makes the cleaning much easier... I use water jet, octanisept dissinfectant, water again and then good drying with cotton buds and hair dryer, still after three days when it comes off for cleaning there is a slight smell... I avoid the use of soap as I am afraid that some may remain unwashed.
I found the resin cage easier to clean since it had more room. The metal cage is... smaller so I don't feel I can get the underside as well as needed. I will upload a pic into a gallery and you can look at the current cage if you wish.