How Long should I stay locked up?

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    #1 Kevin_W, Jul 11, 2019
    I am brand new to chastity for the most part. Today is my 3rd day Locked up. Last night was excruciating. I squirmed in bed all night and even caught myself dry humping a bit. I’ve never been locked and my sex drive is rather fierce for a 34 year old so this is new territory for me. I’m not really sure how to handle it. How long should I initially stay locked? I’m sort of training myself for a real life domme/sub relationship where I will be caged quite a bit for extended periods of time.
     

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    #2 Mash2214, Jul 11, 2019
    How long you should stay Locked depends on the comfort of your cage.
    If it’s causing you pain that could harm you than it’s not the right fit for you.
    If the only issues you have with discomfort is from getting excited but it doesn’t cause you unmanageable pain or discomfort than theirs no reason to have it removed.

    3 days is a good start. Your body will adjust to being Locked over time and you will notice the cage less and less, it will just become apart of who you are like a wedding ring.

    If your serious about a dom/ sub relationship than stay locked longer than you want to. True Chastity doesn’t begin untill you want it removed and it doesn’t get removed. This time is different for everyone. So if your serious you need someone to control the key and not unlock you when you beg for it. From my experience a month or two is a good conditioning time. Probably not the time frame you were thinking about was it.

    Stay locked and Enjoy the new and exciting journey.
     
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    #3 PouchPantyLover, Jul 11, 2019
    To go 3 days on your first lock-up is a lot already. I started with lock-ups measured in hours. My first overnight was a big milestone and a rough night. Eventually I built up to several days. Then I got to a week and that was big. Once you go a week, you can do just about anything. My longest was 4 months. Go slow in the beginning and monitor the health of your package. If you like it you will find that you'll need to work on finding the right cage. Getting that right on the first try is like throwing a cage on and going a year. Both are just fantasies.
     
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    #4 madams-sissysub, Jul 12, 2019
    Agree with both here, as said get the feel for you cage, make sure it’s not hurting you in any way and is comftable. 3 days is good for a first go, maybe give your self a break now, wash and moisturise your self and lock back up later, if you want a challenge, you could try leaving your keys at work so you couldn’t unlock your self over the week end?
    Good luck on your journey!
     
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    #5 Kevin_W, Jul 12, 2019
    Thanks for the advice! Greatly appreciate it!
     
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    #6 Kevin_W, Jul 12, 2019
    Thanks!
     
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    #7 Kevin_W, Jul 12, 2019
    Great idea!! I’ll try that!
     
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    #8 jemima, Jul 12, 2019
    not very long if your cage is like that in your piccy. it look very tight and must hurt a lot. but show it to whoever hold your key and let them know.
     
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    #9 Charles3451, Jul 12, 2019
    Sound advice from Jemina
     
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