I live in regina sk, and I've never bought clothing for a dom b4 and was wondering wat are some good shops for me and my dom( should be noted she a bigger woman) to look
That would depend on whether you require a male fetish-like creature in a latex catsuit with 8" heeled thigh high leather boots, welding a bull whip or a female dressed in what she likes best.
I am a sucker for black stockings with a garter belt and maybe panties. That is it. I like a minimalist approach. Most times my Mistress was naked because after our threesome with my wife, my wife would leave the bedroom to let us play our BDSM games without her. She cannot bear seeing me hurt. So since my Mistress is already naked we just go with that. I like to see her naked. She has 38EE breast and a pretty vagina. Turned me on to look at her and when she was naked I had a minute to get an erection to show my respect for her beauty.
I have a love for seeing my mistress in vinyl, leather or latex clothing. I find vinyl to be the most affordable and easily maintained. There a ton online shops that sell vinyl clothing products but most are made in China and usually run fairly small. There is an online shop called www.artificeclothing.com they are based in Canada and make some high quality vinyl clothing. They also do custom sizing so you can get a tailored fit for your mistress. I've bought several outfits from them and have never been disappointed.
Buy her some nice tall black leather boots (knee high), sheer black stockings, black panties and matching black bra. Oh, and a garter to hold up the stockings. She will be able to wear the boots even when she isn't playing "Dominatrix" for you. Every woman needs at least one set of black under things. You may also want to add a black waist cincher or corset (could be an accent color like red or purple or just black to match the other items). Search online... victoria's secret, fredericks of hollywood. Be sure to get her the right size... maybe ask her first, can be a sensitive subject with us women. Every time she wears the boots with every day clothes, it will remind you of her being a dominatrix for you in the bedroom. Maybe something like this.... and these... Good luck. I love to shop. Hmmmmm, maybe I should become a professional shopper for others.
I would ask her what she likes. For Mina she feels like the restrictive clothing, super high heels and super skimpy outfits make her feel uncomfortable and less dominant. Would you rather your dominant be comfortable and take her complete time with you or cutting things short because her feet hurt or she cant stand wearing the corset any longer? Which is more important you having eye candy or your dominants comfort? That all being said she will appease me on occasion and I do love all the fetish clothing. I will say her running around barefoot with spurs on is super hot!
As you say having a happy partner is key i too love all the amazing leather rubber pvc dominatrix designs we all fantasize about secretly but in the end if my wife doesnt feel comfortable in them she will not wear them so a compromise is required.
It depends on what she likes. I like to dress in retro foundation garments when it's time to be a disciplinarian. I wear various girdles, longline bras or all in ones. I always wear black or red. Footwear is what she likes and feels comfortable in. It depends, too, on what she wants to express herself as. I like the regular heels more than boots, since I see myself more as a disciplinarian than a dominatrix.
You basically just spelled out my ultimate fetish scene. A disciplinarian wearing retro foundations is so hot, especially if they are wearing them while giving OTK spankings, domestic discipline, diapering, enemas, medical play, pegging, etc. I especially love satin paneled high-waisted long-leg panty girdles and longline bra's, or AIOs too! There's something about the retro foundations look that goes so well with the disciplinarian look. I don't know why, perhaps it's because I masturbated when I was young to many Sears / JCpenny catalogs lingerie sections. And I was born in the early 80s too so I didn't even get exposed to the more retro ends of things when I was young. So who knows.