Do you ever feel the need to be whipped ?

That's the problem with being a dude isn't it? The cock head takes over from the one above your shoulders. My advice: Doesn't matter what games we play, as long as both parties are playing by the same ones. When you're thinking with your top brain, not the purple one eyed monster, are you satisfied and happy with your relationship? If yes , great, but if not I suggest writing Her a letter and make your position clear, hopefully she will be understanding and perhaps a compromise where both parties are satisfied can be arranged. If not maybe you should move on? About the shipping, not my thing but I do crave a moderate caning every so often. I think it's possible that we're both a little do-lally-cuckoo, but there you go. Can't all be straight laced with a stick up our arses can we? Hope you reach a mutually beneficial conclusion.

 

Love receiving the cane on my bum 20 hard strokes then followed up with a thick leather belt swung as hard as Miss can.

 

yes, "Lover" of a caning

 

My wife whips me often, sometimes several times a week. It’s a huge turn on for her and I’ve learned to receive. She usually ties me standing spread eagle and whips using whips, canes, belts, paddles. She buys expensive ones so they sting. She likes me to be silent and prefers not having to gag me, but sometimes it’s hard not to grunt or scream, especially when she beats hard with the cane (which is her favorite).