Do as I say, not as I do

Not really.

In PMs 'Mistress' Lucy has been pleading her case, and is sorry that her actions have become seen as fin-domming - not just here but across many other media - and is taking action to reduce this aspect of her activities as it is not who she wishes to be.

Out of kindness Jens in response offered to remove that thread as it without a doubt showed her in a negative light. She is young, and headstrong, and wishes not to ruin her online persona so early in her adulthood, and I would think that is a good thing.

So - removed out of kindness. Is that so bad?

 

From Admin himself:

For the record.
Lucy has agreed to change her Twitter - account and make other adjustments to get rid of the PayPigs approach, etc...
No more fin domme
- and I then decided as a gesture to delete the thread. We all learned from this incident. Lucy as well.
And the removal of her threads is also agreed upon.

So Hold your horses...

Lets move forward., shall we?

 

And Billus, - I accept that You do not seem to share the same vision for the profile of CM as I do, but I hope to see one day that you at least respect my project and my vision - and give my motives for my actions some credit - and not see them as some clever wicked scheme of mine.
That would truly be rewarding...

 

If you are the outright owner of something then he is within his rights to do what he likes tbh.
However there is scrutiny and people do voice their opinions. When Amanda deleted stuff - in the mods reports, the other mods went ballistic.

Apart from spam, things get deleted only with discussion and agreement from other mods.

The post in question yesterday was questioned by the other mods. Lucy was in touch with us voicing her concern and outrage.

Your claims of a dictatorship are grossly exaggerated.

 

Billus, You dont care what other say, - got it.... ( really! you can't honestly mean that.....)

I however do care and will care, - even when You speak out with your accusations of dictatorship.
I do wrong from time to time - hell yes - but I try VERY hard not to, or at least to correct them when I do wrong.
All in accordions with a vision for the mansion. A vision you like or dislike....

This morning i have been mailing back and forth with Princess Lucy for more than 2 hours , and we actually did manage to have a decent conversation.
The fact that she removed the obvious Fin domme stuff, must tell you something.

Lets see, maybe she returns one day, when she has stopped flirting with the fin Domme business completely.

It is my decision. and mine alone to send Fin Dommes off the Mansion... and I stand tall....
I am not to change that approach, no matter the motives I am being dressed up with....

May I advice other not to give more life to this thread. ( And there was no threat embedded,-) )

Like it or not Billus: LETS MOVE ON.....

 

Billus , I won't automatically go by the rules that applies for moderator or even board members. Never had the intention and never stated that I will. Every organization needs a leader or a leadership with a space to operate in the best interest of the organization.

However a working leadership would demand for us to stick our ugly faces together quite often, and invest a lot of time in meetings and such. We do not have that kind of time nor the logistics. But I make very few decisions on my own. Some of the less popular ones I do take all by myself, because I am such a noble guy,;-) and protecting my board , as any leaders should do.... ;-)

Many seems to buy into my visions as I have put forward for all to see. Pleases me obviously
Some do not find it all that fancy. Nothing new in that.... I have the best for the Mansion at heart. And sometimes that might croos what you like. Sorry, but what can I say....
I took over CM , not as a powertrip, but because I saw a vision, a vision of gradually making this lifestyle more accepted in society. Big dream I know, but I tend to have big dreams.....

That I have way more rights and tools in here than you- or even mods - in terms of editing and monitoring should not come as a surprise to you.
In my business life I have all the power I need, in my household she has all the powers, and on CM I try to balance and never abuse my powers, just because they are there to take...

I am fully aware of the potential addiction to power, and yes power corrupt. Some of my actions in here over time emerges from that very observation................;-)

Jens/Admin

 

Correction, not even one rule for everyone else. Not to give you bad dreams at night, but this is the way it has been set up. Moderators enjoy more power than you too. Why? because they are power- junkies or because I throw bones at my "loyal disciples"?
I will let this open question be the last in this thread.

With You approval I will now lock it. I could delete it, but oh boy what a rumble in the jungle you could make out of that....
So just locking it will be....

I am about to enjoy some chilled Chardonnay with my lovely wife in the garden in just a little while.

Come and join us

 

I think Billus just enjoys arguing. Nothing wrong with that but it does tend to get on ones nerves after a while.
When it happens to me, I get a little disgruntled and sometimes do things I shouldn't and regret it afterwards. I do miss Amanda's chat and comments on here and although I can quite understand her being miffed with losing her status, I do wish she would consider returning and make this site more entertaining.

 

I think Billus is a gentleman. A complete and utter gentleman. He starts an open thread and then completely discounts the opinions not only of members, but a moderator at that. I think that's worth a spell on the naughty step. A ban of a few days to a week. Just my opinion, and I wouldn't expect him to have any regard for it either.
But a bit of an explaining and a short term ban might at least send the right message.

 

I will now close this thread for the second time. Not fair to comment on a closed thread even if You a re a moderator. For all to know I have asked Billus if the wanted to comment too, but he declined.

I think we have heard all from both sides now, and anything further is not really going to add to the story. The positions are pretty clear. I will certainly not short term ban Billus as suggested, but I would like to make it clear to him that he - again - is way out of line with his superior @HollyC in his constant attacks, insinuations and insults. Perhaps he should ask himself if a few weeks of time off would not serve him well, so that he can come back with a milder view on everything... Just a thought.....
AND THAT WAS THE FINAL WORDS IN THIS CLOSED THREAD,
GOT IT? ALL!