RANT Okay. I'm going to say it and so go ahead and make me the "lightning rod of hate"... I really do not like wearing my chastity belt - the CB3000 - when I'm in male street clothes. I have a few pairs of pants that it's almost tolerable, but for the most part it's just plain uncomfortable in any male clothing... and not in a good way either. My biggest gripe is my clothes/underwear shoves the A-ring into my pelvis and that hurts. That causes my back to ache, my joints to groan and it gives me a f*cking headache! Grrr... It is mainly because the inseam of my pants are too tight. The CB just doesn't fit under my clothes even if I'm all tucked and positioned just right. It's a real drag. I mostly wear blue-jeans and I don't see that changing. I don't wear super-tight emo pants, (who in their 40's would?) and I don't wear my pants down around my knees like teens do these days either... I wear my pants like "normal" so sh*t! It just isn't working out. I don't believe that there are pants that are comfortable with the CB on underneath - at least for me. Sure I've tried going commando with the same results, so it's not my boy underwear (Hanes). I've tried wearing panties of all shapes and sizes too. It's really just the pants. If I could wear my gurl clothes all day long I'd be in heaven. I love wearing my CB to bed - because that's all I'm wearing. I love wearing it under a skirt or mini with skimpy panties or just with a garter belt and stocking and nothin' else... But when it comes to wearing the CB with guy clothes - this gurl is not happy! I really want to be a sissy and be chaste and serve someone - oh yes. I'd be all into D/s and some level of pain, but not the indirect pain that comes from wearing a CB under male clothing - there's no turn-on or sexual feelings I get from this kind of pain. I just wish I could go cold-turkey and be a gurl like some of you all - all the time! You are all an inspiration to me, but right now I'm sitting here feeling really frustrated. *cry, tears, sniffle* Go ahead - call me a wimp, or a half-assed puss or whatever. It's just not working and I'm sad with myself that I'm feeling this way. Maybe I'm just not cut out for this CB stuff if I can't handle whatever pain is dished out? (I like pain sometimes, but not this kind). But like I said if I could be all femmed out 24/7 this wouldn't be a problem at all. Whhaaa!