Cage gets tight while doing chores

My owner is a female friend not a partner - I’m in a relationship of chaste submission and she’s completely sexually unattainable - I’m not even permitted to have sexy thoughts about her. Obviously I do have such thoughts but I work hard at pushing them from my mind and certainly don’t dwell on any visual images.
What I’ve found over time is that I now get excited by her approving attention, even though it’s not of a sexual nature. It’s as if I’ve been reconditioned, rather like a dog.

 

I do much of the household stuff because she hates doing it mostly, always has. Now with the cage on it earns me rewards. Can honestly say I've never gotten hard doing it though. The naked houseboy stuff on weekends is kinda fun but wouldn't call it erotic or anything.

 

Most humiliating thing is sometimes she makes me wear a bow tie she got at a halloween store around my cage. To me it's more funny then humiliating though

 

it’s a remarkably deep and extreme form of control. I have to obey because I crave her approval and if I indulged thoughts she wouldn’t like, I’d feel bad about disappointing and deceiving her. She knows this about me and is therefore confident that I’m in a state of perpetual repressed yearning, with no effort on her part.

 

Hi there,

I too am a very service orientated submissive. I find that even when my Goddess instructs me about chore it makes me swell in my cage. She has just started locking me 24/7 after our journey started last Xmas and I am so much more focused on making her life as perfect and effort free as possible.

I literally do everything for her at home and I mean everything, effectively freeing her up for more quality time with her girlfriends. This makes us both really, really happy.

She has just started encouraging me to wear panties (which is a major relief or me with her acceptance ) whilst cleaning as she knows gets me going.

To answer your question I try and do the little things as much as possible, wherever and whenever I can.

1 Get her toothbrush ready with paste on daily
2 Ensure her electric blanket is on and the bed turned down and ready for her
3 When serving her dinner make sure the chairs is pulled out and ready to receive her
4 Welcome her on the step when she comes home from work
5 Always prepare a hot water bottle for her when she’s relaxing even before she asks
6 Encourage her to use me as her chauffeur
7 Prepare her bath with scented candles and mood music to ensure she relaxes
8 When serving her wine in an evening I always present the bottle like a waiter and wait for her to approve the wine before pouring, then scuttle of to the fridge to keep it cool.
9 Breakfast in bed is the norm for my Goddess with three cups of tea all made on demand so they are piping hot
10 Turn on the shower so it’s ready to receive her whenever required

I actively encourage her to do less and reaffirm that Iove her and adore serving her at every opportunity.

The list goes on but it’s the little things that matter and show my devotion and love.

She always adored been a Princess but these last ten months has become a true Goddess to be permanently worshipped.

I feel after twenty odd years together I can be my true submissive self serving her and loving every minute. She has invited her girlfriend for lunch next week and has instructed me that I will be serving them. It will be as vanilla as possible as I don’t think her friend knows that I have become her submissive servant!

Good luck and it sounds like your well on your way.

 

I am not caged but I do tend to get a stiffy doing chores.

 

Incidentally for my first year in full-time chastity I was allowed to think sexy thoughts sometimes but at my one year review she removed that privilege. I have often said how difficult it is but she just smiles and says she feels no pity for me whatsoever, it’s what I signed up for so that’s how it is.

 

It happens!

 

It's worse for me because I have to clean the showers for the whole dorm for the cheerleader squad, wearing nothing other than my spiked cage and for some reason a rubber chicken mask.

Often the girls all come in, sweaty and excited after a good game, and I'm there naked cleaning the showers while they are all kissing and soaping each other up.

But, I focus on my cleaning doodies and I find polishing tiles is easily the most arousing pasrt of the process. A real cage tightening experience.

Sometimes, they are all oiling each other up naked, writhing around and moaning, and all I can think about is polishing the tiles when they have finally left.

It makes being forced to sleep naked while standing in a bowl of freezing water worth it, especially as I can see the moonlight glinting off some of my favourite and the sexiest tiles.

 

I'm a simple boy, fairly new to the lifestyle, but I get extreme pleasure from doing any task that lightens the load on my gorgeous KH.
Can't honestly say it's erotic for me, more a sense of euphoria.

 

“for some reason”???
Quite obviously the hen mask is in case anyone should mistake you for a complete cock.

Also, chicken masks are hot!

 

Cuckadoodledo?

 

Or cuckadoodledon’t. It’s entirely up to you.
Just be careful crossing the road. I believe the traffic in Vietnam is pretty chaotic.

 

I believe you don't know what you are talking about, so I guess that cancels you out.

 

I thought your girls boarding school was in Vietnam?

 

Hi Chi Minh City - no place for a chicken

 

Oh, that was you?