Hello there my wife and i have been married 10 years and we would like a special ceremony just a private one to celebrate this fact. the marriage was not going well and we have recently made some changes to our lifestyle and we would like to celebrate this. I am not sure if this is something that people have done or know who administers such ceremonies. I am now in chastity to my wife and we wondered if it was possible to design a ceremony based on this to symbolise my commitment to her as my keyholder and her commitment to me as her locked husband. Hope people understand and can empathise with this I am in chastity chastity as i was not as loving or close as i could be and used to masturbate a lot to pornography hence our marriage and closeness suffered. Not any more though and we would like to celebrate this through a bespoke ceremony. If people do know of such a service or have any ideas please let me know here through either private message or in a post. If anyone has ever done this we would be particularly pleased to correspond. thanks.
We were thinking more private so maybe just the celebrant. However we have never heard of this before so just wondering if the people here have or know of it
Looks to me you will be wanting something custom designed, and also agreed with the celebrant who could maybe also act as witness amd possibly a bit more. I've heard of this scenario but can't remember where offhand.
Any ceremony if not important to either of you, the participants is going to be drab and meaningless. I would design something along these lines: She comes into the room first, followed by you. You strip naked, no chastity device present, and kneel at her feet. Both you and She say some heartfelt words/"vows". Once vows have been said, She locks you into your device. You present the key to Her. Simple but symbolic and effective.
The last time we wanted a special ceremony to marry my wife and I to our lifelong girlfriend, we flew to Las Vegas. Obviously we could not get a marriage license, although it was pretty easy to do so since they have no idea if you are already married. Did not want to risk future problems though. You can get whatever you want if you pay for it. They will do BDSM, all nude, or any other kind of ceremony you wish. Your wife could be all dressed up and you could be naked, locked in your chastity device, being led by a leash. Then you make up your chastity vows and the guy there will conduct the ceremony. We even got a video tape and pictures of the ceremony. For the kiss the bride part I got on my knees, lifted the rented bridal dresses of each women in turn and kiss their naked vaginas. Then we rented a limo and got wasted all night as we were driven from Strip clubs to casinos. It is all a blur but I do remember paying for lap dances from some hot strippers for each of my "brides". We are thinking of a chastity ceremony next time we go to Vegas. My wife wants me naked and caged and even found a few females who can conduct the ceremony as I am not comfortable in being submissive in front of men. The alpha male in me will not let me. Still sounds boring so we are trying to find other things to add to this. We can fly in our former girlfriend. She is still our girlfriend, but only over the phone now since we live about 2,000 miles apart since 6 years ago. She may visit soon though. We are wondering if my wife will be allowed to give me a ruined orgasm during the ceremony. I know that some places will allow S&M stuff like whipping and similar stuff, but do not know if they draw the line at a sex act. They may since it is my wife doing it. If we cannot do the ruined orgasm thing then we may have to settle for her canning my butt while I recite my chastity vows. Right now we do not even know if we will go to Vegas again. Medical problems may get in the way but it is fun to plan it anyway.
We had a very private ceremony and wrote our own vows in the style of the ones in the Book of Standard Prayers. We're not quite brave enough to have anyone to witness it, however one of these days it would be good if someone were to watch and sign as witnessed.