Are ruined orgasms while caged less effective?

I personally think it’s the erection and physical contact that provide the real relief.
My caged orgasms are almost forgotten in a few days. It helps mentally, whilst we are physically unrequited. If anything they make me want more.

Unless you break that habituation to being under-stimulated you will always struggle when pleasure is found. Good stamina is the resistance to stimulation, you need to build that tolerance up. Taking it away will only result in ‘poor performance’.

That said, my last caged orgasm released more semen than my wife and I have ever seen! (I’m not even joking, it was absurd and she only rimmed me before pushing in one finger… ) That one gave me relief until about last night… so a week maybe.

 

No not at all!

 

Caged orgasms are more like ruined ones.
That's been my experience.
The relief is minimal.

 

Personally I hate any form of a caged O, full or ruined. A full O feels like the O is being ripped out of my body. A ruined has absolutely zero effect. I can't tell it happened, I feel exactly the same, it is pointless. If caged O's were my only option I would permanently give up chastity and any relationship where that was a requirement...

 

Have you considered milking? In our relationship we don't do ruined orgasms anymore. It's either all or nothing, and if too much builds up it just comes out in a wet dream.

But if you're just having a hard time not cumming, you might look into numbing creams or something.

 

I’m not a fan of ruined caged O’s, I’m fortunate that my Wife isn’t into them. When she wants my stamina to be there, she will give me a good teasing session with a slight ruin, it takes the edge off and as others have said, you get that stimulation which helps for piv. She only uses this routine for special occasions where she wants piv longer than normal, like our anniversary. If it’s been a long lockup and she just wants some basic piv, if I’m worried about an accident, we use “Numb Master” 5% lidocaine cream on my glans.
If you’re looking for some serious let down and frustration, have a full orgasm caged. They absolutely suck! Kind of hurts, get the sub drop and get almost zero pleasure at all. I’ve only had a few over the years and I view them as a punishment.

 

I've been playing my own little chastity game for a few months and gave myself 2 caged orgasms so far... They are very frustrating and leave you unsatisfied. It takes alot longer to climax in your cage since there's very little direct physical stimulation (almost none in my own experiences), so the anticipation and pressure just builds and builds and when you finally do climax, you don't feel like you got release.

In my own experiences, When I had a caged orgasm, it left me wanting and the horniness and frustration just carried over into the next lockup session instead of "resetting" like a full orgasm. You need to be seriously aroused and excited to get a caged orgasm, since it takes alot more effort than a ruined non-caged orgasm. I actually tired to give myself one about a week ago at the end of my last lockup session and I just couldn't do it. After a couple attempts, I ended up blue-balled and leaking... Not to mention desperate AF.

As for stamina, the other 2 times I did get a caged orgasm, well first of all they were not intentional... I was seriously aroused while watching my favorite fetish videos and things just went a little too far. I did notice a major stamina drop for a few days after each caged orgasm, but no actual relief from the horniness and frustration. So, any talk about a caged orgasm keeping up your stamina didn't apply to me, however I don't think I've had enough of them for a definitive conclusion.

So, my own experience of caged orgasms thus far is that they don't carry over the stamina or dopamine. They do carry over the horniness & frustration (possibly desperation as well) into the next lockup session. But that may change if I get a few more over time.

 

i agree it does take more effort and more time to achieve a locked orgasm.
Before there were parental controls on the web here, I used to be able to watch porn and masturbate locked which made it swifter and easier.

I also find that it's no real relief. I can be just as horny after.

 

That's exactly what I meant when I said both caged orgasms left me frustrated & wanting. In fact, my last session was something of a "Torture Session" because it started immediately after that last caged orgasm and was twice as long as my previous longest lockup time. I got a full orgasm 5 days go and I'm now on a 4-week lockup, but this time seems to be a bit easier for me since I got a full orgasm out of the cage last time, but time will tell.

Hope I didn't just jinx myself... LOL!

 

When you are locked long term you just need to relax into the horniness.
learn to enjoy being turned on and use the energy to get things done
it's ok to feel really sexy and not orgasm.

 

That's exactly why I started chastity a few months ago... It was to be more productive overall and put a stop to a years-long jerking off habit. It did have something of an adverse effect on me however...

This thread will explain that:
An unexpected but welcome consequence...

 

I always found ruined orgasms to be incredibly frustrating, absolutely no release and reduction in horniness, but I could never achieve one using a vibrator on my cage.

 

Since piercing. I feel your pain… literally. It hurts when my cage vibrates that ferociously.

Whether they are helpful or not, I find ruined orgasms so pleasurable, the mix of concentration as my wife goes to work whilst enjoying all the things she has decided to do… bliss.

Yet, left frustrated. Chaste male bliss!

My ruined, caged orgasms typically originate from prostate stimulation these days. They provide more relief, but I don’t get to witness her artistry as much. Swings and round abouts I guess.

 

What about these penis sleeves for stamina and avoiding accidents? Do they feel like the real thing for women?

 

Sounds like another good reason to keep her happy.

 

From my experience ruined orgasms while caged should not be counted. They are physical relief only and do not emotionally relieve with a full orgasm. In fact, they are a true consequence of being kept locked up for that long. The body has to express itself at some point in time.

 

After a two week lock up I had a ruined orgasm in this cage. It was relieving to the balls but I did not receive the Dopamine rush that is normally associated with a true orgasm. It kind of sucked because I felt bad and that I had cheated on my KH but it was a natural occurrence as my body needed to purge itself. KH was sympathetic and did not punish me for this.

 

I only ever had 2 in my cage, the last one I was wearing a vibrating strap on after 10 days locked of a 2 week lock up, the vibrator was to much for me and I came before she did… it was horrible. It was to tight in there to flow out and it sort of painfully dribbled out and I had to keep going to get her off. She made fun of me for going before her while caged and added 2 more weeks to my time. It definitely didn’t help me lasting. Only 2 things help, numbing cream lidocaine or dianabol oral steroids.

 

From what i remember of caged orgasms when I used to get hard.
Painful.

I also noticed that because of the erection compression, that less semen was forthcoming.
When I read up on it , it seems that you can get what's known as retrograde ejaculation when there is a urethral blockage or restriction of any kind. This means that the semen that cant escape gets forced up into your bladder. Like a relief valve.

Since having been locked so long, my erections have faded. This makes caged orgasms a lot more comfortable but still, as many have replied above, a caged orgasm doesn't result in the same level of relief or satisfaction as an unfettered, primal, free range boner climax.

 

Even though I've only been in chastity for a few months, I do have a bit of experience with caged orgasms...

Frist time was an accident, as I was watching a porn video with one of my favorite fetishes and the scene was a little "too hot" and I ended up throbbing and cumming in my cage. My balls went back to normal but I felt like nothing really happened and the horniness carried over to my next lockup.

The second time I had a caged orgasm (back to back from the first time), I was locked up for about 2 weeks. I was watching some porn throughout the day and a few of my favorite stars walked into scene and I really wanted relief from all the pressure that had built up, so I told myself I'm gonna cum in my cage if I want release that badly because I'm not getting out! So, *BAM!!!* It was very constrictive and not everything came out. I was oozing for a good hour and it left me frustrated and wanting. I didn't feel at all like I got release and the pent up feelings just carried over into my next lockup session, which began right away since I was already locked up. This made the next session very difficult and I got desperate after only 2 weeks. The next week and a half after desperation had set in was just downright torture, because even though I had 2 caged orgasms, I felt like I hadn't cum in months.

It wasn't until about a week ago today, I had promised myself an orgasm and at first I tried to give myself yet another caged one (would've been 3 in a row), but I just couldn't do it. I tried twice in a span of just a couple hours, but I ended up blue-balled, leaking and evermore desperate for release... I got so pent up that I went and got the key out of the safe from across the residence and I unlocked myself and gave myself a full orgasm. I felt total relief, but I also felt a testosterone crash for a few days afterward. It took nearly a week for my energy and my drive to adequately recharge.

I'm currently on day 6 of a 4-week lockup session and I don't plan to give myself another caged orgasm at the end, since they're very hard (pun intended) to achive and haven proven consequential to me. If I do give myself one, it'll be for "experimental" purposes and not for release.

 

I loved Porn Addicts post. Why do we choose to do this to ourselves when we are locked up. I do the same thing and eventually end up regretting it. I am out of town locked up right now and I asked my wife to send me a teasing photo. She did and I throbbed like crazy and was unable to get any relief. Be careful what you wish for I guess. It is such a tremendous rush especially when you have no way out. Lori's Tube devices with a piercing securing you really change the dynamic and the game. Well worth the investment.

 

Also, I make sure that I do not have access to a vibrator when I am away. They are dangerous. Remove the temptations. I think the hottest aspect of what I experienced the other day was that my wife disclosed to me that she got "So hot and wet" that she took care of herself and masturbated to the picture I sent her of me locked up and throbbing / bulging in my chastity cage. That scares me but it is scary good that she is starting to really get turned on by seeing me locked up and helpless in my chastity device! !