I heavily disagree. Beeing in a FLR and being a doormat doesn't belong together. I think it's actually the opposite way. Since 1 year I am living...
Hello, I think there is truth in both aspects. Keeping it private and also feeling free to talk to others. I think it depends if chastity is just...
Hmm, I think that this is "Equalism" and I strongly disagree that concentration camps and cuckholding should be mentioned in the same sentence. I...
I must admin that I often have to look up abbreviations which seems common between you long term CM members. I know CNC: -> consensual...
I think this is pure fantasy (to think that you will ever be controlled) because it will always happen on consense and it not it would be an...
Only someone who has experienced both will be able to answer this question. For me, after founding a perfect match and living in a FLR, the answer...
Not sure what your point is. I have a contract which says that my KH is the only one allowed to make my orgasms. We use the cage as a symbol of...
I have bought a key safe for ~25 euro. One key belongs to my KH and the other one is out into the key safe, which I take with me in case of any...
True. True. True. In the beginning before my coming out (ask for a FLR) to my new girlfriend (+keyholder) I have read very often: 1) Communicate!...
We were discussing how great our sex life is, even without any PIV and that we are both very open to try out anything and something doesn't feel...
I think to be more precise, it's not size that matters, it's technique (and tongue).
So what would you prefer if you can choose one (FLR vs Chastity)? What feels great with chastity what it will do your mind, for me it's not the...
Have you asked afterwards, why she came up with this? Just because she knows what you want or did she find any benefit in it?
I think the important question is: What is it what you want? Is it about chastity (the kink) or are you looking for a FLR (which is something...
Agreed!! One of the biggest wins for me is, that it is totally ok for her having 6 orgasms and me having none, keeping me submissive and horny at...
I've done this once recently and she mentioned that she likes this as it's to complicated to do it herself. I love it but I think it needs some...
Just a suggestion. I think without feelings the "procedure" feels empty. In my case I don't feel comfortable or happy because I am caged, but...
Glad to hear that you get the chance to discuss this, you have an open minded partner. I suggest _not_ to talk about chastity - the cage etc....
Hello, As far as I understand there are two questions: 1) should I go for long term? 2) should I go and spent a few hundred dollars getting a...
/ :confused: Ok, this answers all my question ("Am I making a fool .... -> yes!) Thanks for the answer.