Sometimes when our lives get particularly busy and Mistress doesn't have time to discipline/punish as regularly as she likes, I start to get a little off my sub mindset (less obedient, etc.). She wants to cage me as a reminder of my place. The question is... how long? Usually the first few hours are fun and relaxing to me. But she wants it to get to become boring and isolating to be a very effective reminder. So what is your opinion of how long she should keep me caged for? Thanks!
It seems your Mistress enjoys your being locked and wants to take chastity a bit further. If you are willing and have talked this out with her, once you hand over the keys to your device, then the decision is hers on how long you stay locked up. The biggest thing is communication. I, for one cannot stress this enough. Talk, talk, talk and then talk some more. Best of luck to you and your Mistress. Hope everything works out.
Oh ya, we talk a ton and have great communication. We have been married for 10yrs, and strive for a TPE relationship. So yes, the decision is 100% up to her... she would just like some opinions of how long others think would be a good amount of time to keep me caged in these situations. Thanks again!
She could make you write down all the remaining days of the month, by hand, then draw your release date out of a hat, but not tell you.
As you don't actually say how long you have already been locked in your cage, its hard to comment, but even if you have never worn it for longer than a few hours, I would certainly suggest a week. More weeks can be added as you become adjusted to wearing your cage, building you up to be able to be caged for months on end.
I need to clarify, so sorry for the confusion... I am locked in chastity 24/7. I meant an actual cage (not chastity cage), like a dog cage. We have a metal one and the bars are far enough apart to stretch your legs, so it can be stayed in for a long time. Thanks!
A cage, of course. That would seem to be more a function of biological need and sanitation than anything else. I assume you are house trained, so just throwing news papers down doesn't seem the best solution. How do you propose to handle that bodily elimination thingie? I am caged 24.7 now myself, but sitting to pee seemed like a problem until I heard your story. I am on pins and needles, pray tell more.
Do you have a garden shed? She could chain you out there for the night (or longer depending on the weather)
A Brit perhaps? No one has a garden shed where I am. They would call that the "Guest House". I like the idea though, chained but between the manure and the tulip bulbs. Make yourself useful and plant something for gods sake!
In Britain we have sheds. You keep your lawn mower and tools in the shed, maybe a bike or two. Some guys have 'sheds' where they have a comfy seat and maybe a small tv, but these are sad lonely individuals who haven't discovered the joys of chastity and how it brings you closer to your Wife. They have the sort of relationship where they talk to their mates about 'her indoors' or some variant of their 'trouble and strife'. You can also see them sitting in cars parked outside supermarkets, reading newspapers while their wives do the shopping. They have probably helped inside a few times but have deliberately been a pain so they are now told to stay put. Anyway, if you tried to put your guests in the shed for the night you would definitely be breaking etiquette rules set down several centuries ago and be told in no uncertain terms that this was jolly bad form and just not cricket. Good day sir.
I have two sheds: One's the garden shed where the lawn mower, snow thrower, etc live. The other is my glass workshop. There *is* a tv, but I haven't worked out a comfy chair yet. Chaining me in the garden shed really would be punishment; that's where the mice are.
Thank you for the education and forgive my ignorance on the topic of sheds. I'm always learning something new.
Oh! That kind of cage. Personally I would hate that. I do not like being isolated or confined and the Mrs knows this. She uses this as punishment when I misbehave. Being put in a cage or dog kennel would never be, "fun and relaxing" for me. So to answer your question of how long to be locked in a cage, 60 seconds would be to long for me. A few months age the Mrs asked me if we still had that dog kennel, when we had a large dog from some time ago. I told her yes that it was in the shed behind the garage. She then told me I needed to dig it out and put it together in the basement. My head was spinning. Once I had placed it where she wanted, she told me I had best be good or I might find myself locked and naked in it. So far I have not been locked in it, thank God. I think she had me put it there as a reminder for me as I see it every time I do the laundry. Needless to say it has worked...
Oh I see. I did use a dog cage for my maid on occasions but only for an hour or two. It helped to stop her non-stop chattering.