So I was not wanting to post here the first time until I had something exciting to share. My Subby and I began chastity a few weeks ago and he was honorable to keep himself chaste until his little cagey arrived. I appreciated that so much as we began but it was more about his restraint than me imposing it. So today was the first time I denied him and truly believed he was fully submitting to my wishes. First of all he is slightly obsessed already with staying caged long term. I am still thinking on that. However, judging from these initial benefits, I am game for it at this point. The thrill it gave me to deny him was probably matched by his thrill at being told NO. We are loving the intimacy and romance it has brought back to our relationship. It is one that, like many, has had it s ups and downs over the years. We have been together a long time. This new beginning has me so excited that I obviously want to share about it & hope you find this enjoyable or informative reading. I have been learning a lot from the Mansion & its members, thankfully. I look forward to his continued submission and seeking to please my every whim in the bedroom. On a side not, if you read this & want to wish him a happy day, today is his birthday & HE gave ME a wonderful gift...which I accepted as my gift to him. Sending out love to at_her_bidding! MLR
The quest to find a device that fits seems to be a common theme. It takes determination and a bit of luck to find one. I am biased towards the Holy Trainer as I wear one 24/7 but it is not the perfect device for everyone. It is comfortable and sits well and discretely. The issue though is it has to be removed every three to four days for a good thorough clean of device and penis. Once I have proved to my wife I am serious about my wishes to remain in a chastity device she is going to let me invest Ina custom device.
May Iask where you found the best price for the HolyTrainer..it seems to have a good reputation among chastity fellows. Thanks MLR
Hello @My Lady Rouge The fact is I paid more for the Holy Trainer than I needed to by going to the manufacturers direct. I live in Germany because of my Wife's job (we are both English, but she came here to work a few years ago. She has a good enough job that I was able to not worry about working, my job now is to look after her, our house and our 18 year old son full time.) I bought the HTv2 full price in desperation, my first three devices had all failed for various reasons and I knew my Wife was going to stop my attempts to start a Male Chastity FLR type lifestyle. The problem was I did not understand about customs charges and I had to pay an extra €42 on delivery. That made it more expensive than it would of been had I ordered it from Überkinky in the UK. It worked out to be €207 in total. It was worth every cent. It rescued my efforts from complete failure. I am wearing it right now and cannot feel it. I wore it last night when I gave my wife a sensual massage and brought her to orgasm and it contained my erection with a dull ache rather than pain like my other devices. It has to be removed for hygiene every three to four days but we are experimenting with ways of me cleaning the inside of the tube to see if I can last longer. I hope that helps. Some guys are lucky and find a cheap metal device that works for them. I could carry on ordering the various Chinese devices until I find one, but the HTv2 taught me that my anatomy needs the ergonomic ring of a more expensive device to cope with wearing a device 24/7/365.
Look out for the plastic tube designs. They tend to smell like a mens public lavatory after a relatively short wear.
This is very true. I need to shower daily, using a good squirt of liquid soap into the end of the tube and some cotton wool buds to have a god clean. My Wife and I are experimenting to see if this will allow a longer period between release for full hygiene. That said it will probably be worse in the summer. And I want a good metal device by then.