All this is happening with the looming spectre of corona virus, getting louder each day. We are spending a lot more time together. Which has been nice. But at the same time isn't exactly sexy. My partner is not unwilling but can be quite shy. We both just turned 40, and have been happy for many years. We have dabbled in bdsm for years, but beside dressing the part my Mrs is not very dominant. We do enjoy a very active sex life but I have craved a more submissive roll for some time. We are no strangers to cuffs and pegging ect, but I have to request these things. I recently started talking about chastity during sex. My partner didn't really get it at first. But I kept asking her if she would like to have total control of my dick. I started calling her princess during sex. I expressed a desire have her decide when i get any sexual pleasure. I told her I watch to much porn which was true. After a few of these discussions during sex I started asking her to talk dirty to me. "Talk to me about locking me up". She obliged me and the dirty talk had a very stimulating effect. Seeing how much I enjoyed the idea, after sex one night my Mrs said "you really want to do this don't you." I confessed I did. I said it would be fun to at least try it out. I didnt push it, I let the ground settle a bit. About 2 weeks later i asked if she still thought it would be fun to try, she said yes. I stressed to her that if she ever felt uncomfortable she must tell me. I ordered a device after sex that night. Once the device arrived I locked up immediately and gave my partner the keys that evening. To start with my Mrs was cold and awkward when the topic came up. The keys went in the bedroom draw. But i had access to them. Over the next few days the device came off and on a bit. Getting used to it and different ring sizes. I'm between 45-50 i think. Still working on that. My partner works nights so when she was leaving one evening I told her the keys were in her purse. There wasn't much comment but off she went to work. So that was that. I'd be locked for my first 12-18 hours ish with no access to keys. I was in the 45 ring which is chalenging after a few hours, as i was to find out. I retrived the keys and unlocked after about 15 hours. We put it back on a couple of days later after sex. I handed my Mrs the keys and she was into it. When my Mrs was turned on she liked it, in the cold light of day it makes her feel awkward. Wearing the larger ring i was pretty comfortable. My Mrs had accepted the keys and I was locked. It was clear though my Mrs still felt awkward. I was very matter of fact about it. I was aware this was a critical time. Either she would get used to it or it would have to go. One afternoon I said to her, it was a bit uncomfortable. (Playing with the 45 again) and she said well take it off. I felt deflated but did as u was told. She hasn't really been holding the keys so really what was the point anyway. A couple of days later it's sexytime again. The subject of the cage came up. I forget what was actually said in the beginning but whatever it was my Mrs said why isn't it locked now ? You better belive my brain switch on to that. I told her that I wasn't wearing it because she told me to take it off. I think something clicked in her when I said that. I reminded her what i said before, about it only been fun if she was into it. She then told me "Well we better get it locked then" after I locked up she literally snatched the keys off me. We have put them on some black ribbon. She thinks the idea off wearing them is hot but so far she hasn't. (Social distancing). Clear to say my Mrs is onboard now. Everything i write is 100% true. I know I'm no writer. But after enjoying all your tales on here, I felt I should relate my own journey. A journey many of you kinksters inspired me to persue. Edited for formatting. Sorry I'm still new at this.