Bummer as I am in my late 40's and it takes me longer to get really built up and ready. Day 2 was a vacation...at the start of day 3 i'm not sore or bothered yet...at 45 that was not the case.... been chasing the wife anyway and she says she feels so much more secure in our marriage like this...with me constantly chasing, stopping to kiss and hug, telling her she's hot, etc...that part is the true reward from playing this game.
I’m on that page, both of us are more affectionate with each other. We also seem to be more understanding of our wants & situations. Even tho I’m not full time locked, it’s been a great (needed) change for us.
Its taken us a few iterations that I could go on about...2 1/2 year journey to get to know and understand each other...but we are getting into a new sweeter spot I think so far...