Let me first say, I am 63 and my wife 57, has not yet agreed to keeping me in chastity (although I am self locking) nor embracing the lifestyle, but she is considering it. (it has only been introduced in the last 5-6 weeks) We have not been sexual for several years. Part mental, part physical but that has passed so there is no reason other than PIED which I am breaking away from. We are retired and I have for years been the cook. Help with cleaning and laundry (which she enjoys and does not want taken away from her. I give her regular massages and use a TENS unit on her back. I do hand and foot massages while below, her sitting on the floor. Brush her hair. Buy her flowers once a week. Offer oral which she is not interested in (she is post-menopause) I am seeking additional new ideas that I can incorporate that would please her and entice her to embrace the Chastity D/s life. We are fully committed to each other but there are a lot of stressors. Ailing parents, Children's marriage issues. Any advise, preferably from wives would be appreciated.
It sounds like you are being very thoughtful and loving. Points to you for recognizing she enjoys certain tasks and not to interfere. Providing service is very personalized. You know her best. Look for things that relieve stress for her. Ailing parents are a tremendous challenge. Do you think there is an opportunity to take over some of their care and doctor visits? Give her some time off? I do the things you mentioned plus detail her her car inside and out every week. I also keep her yard looking beautiful. Pedicures are also popular.
Are you sure you can't or don't want to have sex anymore? Ever tried to use sex toys? My wife and I have an arsenal of about 200 toys spread around the house. These are used again and again and work always and reliably, even if you should be locked or can no longer or can not at that moment.
Do us a favor, and keep us updated as to your progress with this ... I'm quite interested to hear how this goes for you.
i agree! It sounds like your doing everything right already! Maybe just need to wait a while and see where you end up. Good luck and I hope you enjoy your journey!
It sounds like she’s a lucky lady already Things I always try to do for my wife - Make her coffee / tea every morning Always open doors (including the car) for her Offer to fetch whatever she needs Treat her often with gifts / flowers Try to make every one of her fantasies a reality Offer to massage her every night Make / pour her drinks in the evening Tell her how amazing, kind and beautiful she is regularly Basically, treat her like the queen she is