My Princess has informed me that she will be using a strap on me for the first time this week. Outside of cleanliness preparations, is there anything I can do to make this more pleasurable for her? Do you guys have any special techniques when you're being topped? I'm a little scared, so far I can only take the tip with plenty of lube. Any tips for me on taking it in the ass any easier? Thanks in advance!
Find a comfortable position for you both, we have found the best for us is me bent over a pile of pillows over the side of the bed, whilst mistress stands behind. Plenty of lube, and then just relax and enjoy!
Eat light the day of the event. Try to pre-stretch yourself in the shower between now and then with a finger or two, or three if you can. Most importantly, relax! When she begins to enter you just let your body go limp and don't fight it. Also, don't be afraid to ask for more lube if it begins to burn. If its hurting, speak up. As for what will make it better for her, all I can suggest is a butterfly vibe worn under the strap-on so that she can get some vibes in return. This is the kind that has its own belt worn around the waist to hold it in place. If its in the right place she might really get into grinding her cock into you to get more sensation from the butterfly vibe.
I tend to find it's best to unstrap and leave it in him when I'm done. That way he can hold onto it on route to the bathroom to sort himself out.
I bet you will enjoy, relax and feel it and I bet you will like it giggles Althought I have never experienced a strap on I play myself several times with a dildo and ohhhhhhhhhh it´s amazing
Honestly if she has brought it up then the very act will be enough to turn her on. You need to focus on just relaxing and breathing. JD mentioned loosening yourself up before hand in the shower and that is excellent advice. Bring a dildo into the shower with you and keep at it until you can comfortably accept it before having her try anything. You have to relax and let her take you. Become a submissive virgin and let your big strong woman have her way with you. And most importantly, be sure to let us know how it went
You are right Misteess B, the bigger the better!!! Seriously though, she is right. A lot of the good folks here at the mansion have used a lot of different sized plugs, dildos, and strapons to get our bodies used to "taking a pounding". All joking aside if you are truly unprepared, talk to her about getting plugs and getting comfortable with it before jumping into a painful situation. If it is excruciating the first time it could ruin one of the best parts of male chastity (in my opinion) for both of you
To add to the advice of relaxing (which is very important), I suggest getting her to play around back there with the lube, working her fingers in one at a time to help get you ready. Over time this will not be needed and you will find yourself craving it, at which time she'll drive it in balls deep in one stroke. As for her, if she's truly into it nothing else will be needed and her thrusting will bring her to a nice orgasm. For a little extra, my Goddess loves wearing her We-vibe with the Vac u Lock strapon. For a more personal and closer feeling (skin to skin) you may want to look into the Real doe as well.
I agree the bigger the better, for an experienced slave. For your first time though it might be better to start with something a bit smaller. She can always go up in size, if she starts too big you might not enjoy it. You then might not relish such an enjoyable act. Being relaxed is so important for your first time. When the feeling comes upon you, and it will, you can act with lust!
Thank you for all the advice! I'm getting more and more excited. My Princess is greatly enjoying my anticipation. I'll let everyone know how it goes! I just hope she enjoys using my pussy @ Mistress Mascara^Snake, my Princess loved your suggestion