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    When my KH wife decided to lock me in a chastity cage, we went to a market to buy a good quality padlock. The padlock required for the cage has to be small. We were surprised to note that (at least in India) most padlocks are not secure in the sense they can be opened with similar size small keys.
    So finally my KH wife bought a combination number lock which does not have the key. Every time she releases me, she changes the number combination. While locking & unlocking she blindfolds me so that I can't read the number.
    All keyholders, please consider this issue, or else your 'property' is likely to be used by your slave!!
     
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    if subs cheat, they might as well not play.
     
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    I think that number lock is less secure... 3 digit padlock can open about 20min. and 4 digit I dont know.
     
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    Wendygirl To offer advice and keep CM safe and welcoming

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    Read Mistress Bitch's comments.
    Why bother if all your waking or maybe wanking moments are taken up fiddling with your device or your winky.
    Either you are true to your Mistress or your not its your decision .
    Xx wendy
     
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    Wearers do not want to get out, at least not most of the time. But chastity is *so much hotter* if you can't get out. Wearers have their weak moments, a strong Dom and a difficult to remove device helps them get past those moments. There are no devices that are impossible to remove, but for any given wearer there are devices that are difficult enough, or re-installation is difficult enough, or detection is so likely, that they do not remove it without permission.
     
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    Seems like a hassle for your KH. My position, which may not be the popular one, is that if you are committed to chastity, you will not want to cheat as it will spoil the game YOU want to play. No guy is forced into chastity against his will. That is not only illegal but not the basis of a loving and respectful relationship. Given that you voluntarily sought chastity, why would you want to spend time figuring out how to destroy the very thing you seek?

    I remain chaste, locked or not and many times I have a key because I need to change spacers to adjust for the condition of my balls. I never cheat. If I did it would ruin the purpose of my being denied an orgasm. If I even tried to escape, my wife would hand me all the keys and tell me that she assumes that I really do not want to play anymore. Unless you are doing chastity for religious reasons, it is play. As I said, my viewpoint may be different than most but it has endured through several decades of marriage where others have moved on to other things.
     
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    Thanks everyone for your frank opinion. Let me explain a few facts about our life. I introduced chastity to my wife not for excitement or kink or pleasure. Recently she has built a very strong suspicion about me having an extramarital affair. Which was not so. However there was no way I could prove my innocence or loyalty towards her. as a result we were about to separate. This situation made me search a solution on internet & I found male chastity lifestyle. I made her surf through various blogs, forums, experiences etc & finally she was convinced that only if she locks me 24x7 in a secured cage, there is no way I can have sex without her knowledge. After showing her all cages available, she selected the steel cage (my avatar) & the number lock. It took her a few months to finally come out of her suspicion. It was only after that stage got over, the chastity play, T&D and all other fun came back to our life. Today we are much closer to each other then we were before.
    Coming to the point, the lock to my cage was not just a symbol for us; it meant much more for her. Chastity lifestyle has saved our marriage! And my cage has become an integral part of my body.
     
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