Wearing a chastity device is much harder than you might imagine. When my Owner first brought up the subject i felt taken aback but i also i understood the importance and reason for this practice. It was definitely a turning point in our relationship but i’m so happy that i followed my heart and gut feeling that this would be a good thing for us. Looking back i have to say that it takes a lot of devotion and determination and i doubt that i could ever have done it for a longer period of time without the strict and loving guidance i have had. my Owner has not only demanded but also guided me to both accept and understand the importance of wearing a chastity device, not only as a slave in the present but also as a good cuckold in the future. Now, i can say that from my point of view it is about showing adoration and love and at the same time showing the Owner the respect She/He deserves. Giving up control of my manhood was difficult but most of all it was the best thing that i have ever done! It has been difficult because of all the changes it entails. From the little things, such as having to sit down when i pee to the bigger, for example, when i go to the gym. In the locker room the others can see that i'm wearing a chastity device and that of course, leads to smiles and questions. On the other hand, it has been the best thing i have ever done because it created an instant bond between my Owner and me. Also, it has changed me from thinking like a real man to think and have the mindset of a little slaveboy. It has helped me realize what and who i am.
I hear what you're saying, but you're preaching to the choir. Most of us don't need to "imagine" how hard it is to remain in chastity (response to your first sentence). I do hope you elaborate, though, and make it personal. It's good to hear real stories of chastity.