Something has happened lately, its very different. my Wife has been using a variety of strap-on dildos on me and even using a feeldoe and for the first time enjoying it. She enters me slowly and gently but once in She fucks me hard and deep till I am dry. Often two or three times a day. Weirdly I am not even sore down there at all afterwards. Even after usung the extra large Feeldoe. But something is happening to me too, when She is done and has had an orgasm and I have not, I am dripping out of my chastity cage so much I have to hold my hand under my crotch to catch it. Something like when I used to fuck her all the time she would have to catch it a similar way, ironically it is still my cum that that is dripping down to be caught, hmmm. After she is done I feel so connected to her and dependant. I also feel very calm as if I have taken a Valium. Completely blissfull! We spoke about this in detail and She said that I was definitely Her bitch, She said that in a matter of fact way that just is what it is. She said I was describing exactly how a woman feels when She has been well fucked. Well, comments anyone? We have been doing this for years but it just this past two weeks got this way. It has suddenly gotten really good and I feel great!!! subklik
Did you change anything in how she fucks you? Or the device she uses? Or the chastity sentence that ges along with your strap on play? Did you change anything else or did it "just happen"?
I think you're experiencing what is often called 'milking' - stimulation of the prostate to the point that semen (precum) is being released in copious quantities. As you said, you're not having an orgasm, but get a relaxed, blissful feeling after she has fucked you... certainly similar to how women describe post-coital feelings. I think maybe it's a satisfaction at having given your partner sexual pleasure. It sounds very special... like you two have reached a milestone of sorts. Congrats! Two or three times a day... wow! It does sound like you are both really enjoying it now. How often does she allow you an actual male orgasm?
We are using the same toys the only difference is She is no longer "raping" me with a forced entry. She is taking her time, She is also enjoying Herslef much more using the large Feeldoe. As far as "Milking" goes obviously there is a prostate massage going on that is making me drip, but then there always was before too. Yes this is a milestone for sure. My last relese was on March 30th and there is'nt one coming anytime soon. But with this treatment i don't seem to need one. She gets one daily more or less.
Force is not helpful when it comes to milking. I milked myself very often and I feel always very relaxed after doing it. It´s no orgasm not at all. It just is the good feeling, that the "pressure is gone". So I guess StrictSir is correct, when he says you got to the point were your Mistress found out the right way to milk you. Trust me I was trying a long time with more and more force to make that milking happen, since I was having the wrong idea. I thought I have to !squeeze it out" with as much force as possible. But that was so wrong. For me the key information was "don´t put more pressure on your prostate, than you would on your eye". After doing it soft and tender the juices started flowing ... a LOT. So dildo rape is probably not the key to milking either ... unless you would rape your eye too ;-) I would compare the feeling after milking a bit with the feeling that we all know: The feeling one has after dumping a massive (I mean really massive) load of sh1t in the toilet, like during x-mas time were we all stuff food into ourself like crazy ... disgusting comparison, but I thing that is closest to anything, when describing a good juicy milking
Hi again, I think I should clarify here. This is not milking! There was never any intent to milk or be milked, milking is a whole other subject. I appreciate the passing reference but that by itself completely misses the point. She has milked me before and that is a totally different thing. This is about a really beautiful experience that lasts all day for us. This is striclty a reversal of roles and Her doing the penetrating and thats really about it. The force referred to was not connected to anything except Her newfound (at the time) power over me. She would simply push in too fast when She was "in character" acting like a male and it would be painfull thats all that really was. She would cause me physical pain that way and either it was cut short or she would be too easy and I would feel nothing. I hope that clears it up. I want to be totaly transparent about this experience. It has brought us very much closer as a result. I wish I could describe this better but that is the best I can do for now. Thnaks for all the responses so far! Great!
It sounds interesting! We have all the gear, but I haven´t got to the point to really use it, though I know my pet really wants me to... but no longer asks me to.
That sounds great. I've been using a strapon and butt plugs on my hubby, but not two or three times a day.. yet! Last time hubby's body was shaking after I fucked him with the strapon after taking him on a kinky walk.
Hello Madame Domina and Kinky wife: We have had a break for a bit. I have some health issues that get in the way sometimes. However when i start to feel better i always begin craving to get fucked. This is how She measures how well i am feeling. LOL Some advice though, when you take him, do it as a dominant male would. Make him feel like a sexy submissive, like a steeotypical vanilla woman would feel. Then make love to him gently as You would like a him to make love to you in a loving vanilla situation. Then when you have your missile all the way in and lubrication is plentiful, don't stop fucking until You get what you want. Make him feel a bit used but still loved. The afterglow is amazing. How is that? BUT PLEASE!!! Don't bring this experience DOWN to just being milked!! Don't think of it as "just being milked". This thread was started to try to express the possible depths of this style and methid of role reversal love making. I hope i can keep this alive and improve what i am trying to say here. Thank You so much for posting. subklik
That is something to work on. I made my hubby happy this weekend when I took him with the trap-on for the first time. He talked about something similar that you do. maybe it can become even greater after a little practice from my side... I think I have to imagine so much more than the dominant male while doing this, since I don´t get the release that he would. He would do it for himself. This I do for him. Isn´t that all over again the things a woman do for her husband....? Oh, sorry. I wandered off the subject... I´m glad I could give him the pleasure that he have been longing for, but I think I can take this away from my punishment-list. He enjoys it too much
there are more than enough ways to make a strapon unpleasent - apart from varying the size - no matter how much he usually enjoys it. Just be inventive
Madame Domina and kinky wife, I am so grateful to read your posts. I had given up on trying to express the experience in this thread until you expressed your experiences with your husband. I have to say that you may not be able to use this as a punishment but you can absolutely use it to keep him in his "place". The strap on is a great teacher, it puts a man in the place of the "penetrated one" the one who lays down and receives the cock, while the "penetrator" gets satisied or finishes and the "penetrated" suffers the indignat feelings of the one who has been fucked and left unsatisfied. Sound familiar? Most women have been there a time or two and frankly most men need to be put there to understand. So it is not punishment but it does melt me into the deepest love and submission ever. No whip or cane could accomplish what the strap on does. Of course finishing a good strap on fucking with a caning could really do it for you (and him) Thank you for the positive understanding feedback. humbly, subklik
Subklik! I think this really can be a good way to keep my hubby in place. I guess I have to try this more. I have had a hard time to take the step and trying this on my husband. I know he has been a little disappointed but it hasen´t felt "natural" for me. Maybe it will be easier after a while, when I find my way of taking him. I know he liked last time, and he described it like he was totally calm, and totally mine. In a way, that is wonderful.
Dear Madame Domina: i am so happy to have communicated something to you and anyone else that may help. i am truly humbled. This thread is serving its purpose after all !! ever so humbly; subklik
Dear Ladies an Subs, having just read previous posts I must say that making love by penetrating the other so that the one penetrated really enjoys is always difficult, no matter of the sex. Getting an orgasm during vaginal intercourse is diffucult for most women, let alone for anal/men. Both parties need to learn the skills, to give and receicve in a way that is pleasant to both. Most vanilla men will never learn that. Being just a fucktoy and looking at the other orgasming while pumping is a wonderful feeling too. I think that it's a strike of lightnig if both get off simultaneously. And the lightning never strikes twice to same spot, they say.. . I'm sorry to say that I've never been fucked with a strapon, just been ridden by the wife while a dildo buzzing in my butt. So please accept my apologies for being a teacher here. Josie
We too have all the gear (fun factory share + load of plugs & dildos) but up till now, we have never gotten into it (she doing me). FFShare was bought in co-operation with a serious intention of using it. However, some sort of mental barrier has yet to be crossed. I do love to play with my ass, and I believe a shared joy would be a doubled joy. I have reached orgasm with clone-of-aneros and would be in heaven if my beloved wife would fuck me to real orgasm. However, I guess that is not very likely, at least easily. Well, actually I can receive a full orgasm without anything up my ass. It takes a couple of days of not cumming and some time watching good porn + rhytmical exercise of pelvic muscles. No need for touching my dick (caged, of course) either. For some reason penetrative sex "without using genitals" is a huge turn on for me (at least when considering porn flics): fisting, anal fucking, anal fisting, anal toying. The idea of being penetrated but without actual genital stimulation is really hot. She penetrating me is one of those things... Congrats, first poster. I wish I could enjoy the same experiences, but she lets me cum almost daily into her (not that I mind!). I guess reaching your experiences would need a long time without ejaculative orgasm. But who knows ...
Trust and deeper trust is where we began. There is nothing I can think of that we can't or havent shared. Yeah it does take time and patience. It started with Her discovering the prostate and "milking". That amazed Her, then She wondered if i could cum from it too and one thing led to another and She just didn't give up til She got what she wanted. I am happy to see this inspire so many. Subklik
Just my thoughts, I crave anal the longer I'm locked up. Heck the neighbors cat is looking good. I guess that is why gay men luv each other so. Don't knock it till you've tried it.. As I always say, Never judge someone till you've waked in their shoes. In my case Heels.. Now going to beg the wife for some back door delight.. Oh hunny, I have a thought,, Missy Tanya
Uh oh. I'm no longer anal virgin. That left me wanting for more. My wife, however, was not so delighted: Fun Factory Share left her quite unsatisfied. We'll do more practising in the future...
I still remember the first time my Mistress took my anally. Up to then, it had been very difficult for me to be penetrated anally, it hurt a lot and would not go very deep or very big. But She laid me on my back at the edge of the bed and used a nine-inch strap-on. She was gentle, but firm. I was afraid at first due to the previous limitations, but in no time, She was in me all the way. It was the most profoundly submissive experience I had had up to that time. Very anjoyable and completely draining. I was completely limp, and all warm and fuzzy. It did not however casue me to orgasm or even milk.