During my last orgasm I happen to call my wife a princess. She surprised me by saying that she likes that name and for me to use it from now on when addressing her. I started to use it but at our age, princess does not seem to fit. I suggested Mistress, like mistress of the house but she was not sure about that and just left it at saying that we will find a name that works for both of us. I never even called the woman dominating me, Mistress, so I really do not know what would be a good name that is not too D/S sounding and is both a dominant and endearing name. Any suggestions?
If she likes "princess" - PRINCESS it should be - voila! ( If you - as I sense - have a strong need to express a more powerful and mature gesture - I would ask her if You can call her "Queen".) Your "Queen of the night "might like that after all… Sincerly
How about Duchess ? But Princess is perfectly apt as you do not have to be young you just have not been crowned Xx Wendy
So right. She said she wants to be called Honey. Do a dot is written, it shall be done. Thanks for all the great suggestions.
My wife's honorific is Lady. She is certainly a lady, and she likes that it is not too pretentious, like Goddess or Empress. And she didn't like Mistress as in her mind that was a woman helping a man cheat on his wife. Lady fits her well.
Sweet , - whatever rocks your boat But - said with a BIG monday morning smile: Is'nt "Honey Bunny" as far as one can get away from expressing her leadership?? You started out by asking for a: "good name that is not too D/S sounding and is both a dominant and endearing" HighFive for the endearing part Have fun I Wish You and Honey Bunny a glorious week
On the odd occasion that we go to a posh hotel the staff sometimes call my Wife ma'am (pronounced "ham" not "palm"), she tells me she likes that.
My wife just wants me to call her by her name. She says that if I call her Mistress or goddess, I may get so used to it that I will address her that way in public. She has some friends that are very vanilla and will never talk about sex, drink or curse.
Those friends who appear to be very vanilla? I'd bet you a big box of doughnuts that at least one of them is secretly in a kinky relationship. (And if not, it's a lot of fun to imagine them as if they were.)
My wife gives me dirty looks if I call her anything but her given name. I have been using the word "mam" lately with no negative response from her so I will continue with that until she tells me to stop.