New Beginnings.

After weeks of research and discussion with my wife, now KH we purchased a cb6k.
I was in and and out of it on and off for several days trying to get the right the fit.
I have now found it. I think.
I took some time off from work last week and went to stay at our caravan.
KH does not enjoy going to the caravan I go alone to relax and read.
I was locked up from Sunday through Saturday.
In the beginning it was difficult and thoroughly enjoyable.
Whilst I was away from work I had previously ordered a book, "Key Holder" guide for my wife which arrived whilst I was away, she has read it and is beginning to understand.
All day Saturday I was teased that the keys had been lost.
On Saturday night I was relieved and enjoyed some quality time with my KH. However, I was immediately locked backed up again after her orgasm. So today is again the mark of a new beginning, no date as been set yet for my release and I do not wish to ask.
Should I ask?
Do we need to set targets?
It is my birthday at the end of April, is that too long for a novice?
I am back at work tomorrow and feeling pretty nervous that some one may guess my secret.
I got a kick out of talking to people last week whilst locked up. Bizarrely I feel chirpier. Is that strange?
Reading this blog back to myself shows I am all over the place. Four questions in the space of five minutes writing.
Hoping to hear from you wonderful people on this site whose comments and advice have been taken on board.

Good Night
Rob

 

KH is my wife. I have had no problems with cleaning I just use a lot of shower gel each morning then moisturise.

 

Had to send the CB6k back to the supplier I was not happy with it. The Penis cage was to long for me and it felt quite cumbersome.
I am now the proud owner of a CB6000s which arrived on Thursday and I have been locked since.
The CB6000s feels much better. The keys have been handed over to my wife.
We actually made it a ritual locking my penis away. The click of the lock was a pleasing sound.
The journey begins here.

 

I have now been locked for 6 days and I am enjoying every minute.
The CB6000s is the business.
No issues what so ever with cleaning or chafing. All is well.
KH teased me on Sunday night and I was expecting a release. However, this did not happen I was told I had to wait until Tuesday.
Tuesday as come and gone. KH said it was her cock and she would use it when she was ready.
So Tuesday did not happen.
As long as KH is happy then so am I.
It is my birthday at end of the month but that is not relevant KH will make any decisions.

 

Still locked however KH has made me go down to ring size 4 and smallest spacer. Which was a relief as I felt I was shrinking and tube felt a little clunky. The fit is now very snug and testicles are a healthy pink
Night time boners were sore for a day or two.
Still enjoying the feelings and I love being submissive to my wife/KH.
All is well.
I must add though, if I was allowed an orgasm I would reach the end of the street.

 

Went for a meal last night and afterwards I was allowed to be unlocked. A full blown O happened after much tease. I overstepped the line and made a mess. It was absolutely wonderful. Although KH did not agree.
I have been locked up since the beginning of April 2014.
I was going to stop the clock but I have decided if I am allowed out for 12hrs or longer then I will go back to the beginning. I was allowed to sleep without my cage.
The CB6000s is brilliant, no problems with cleaning or anything else.
KH is thinking of a date of my next release as we believe a date should be set, which she may move, after all it is up to her.
Enjoying being locked. It would feel strange not to have the CB on.
Off to the Pub this afternoon with some friends and I will be locked, until when, I do not know.
Robb.

 

Been quietly getting on with chastity after a nearly a month.
We have enjoyed several T&D sessions over the weeks.
My KH loves to bring me to edge and then just leaves me there.
It is frustratingly wonderful. I don't know now whether I want a full orgasm as I enjoy the edging so much.
I do, however find it uncomfortable being teased long term with the CB6000s on.
Last week the agony was unbearable and I had to beg to be un locked.
For days after I was told I was a softy pants. I quiet enjoyed that.
Short teases are OK. The long ones have me begging to be released.
I love the feeling of the tube being slid from her cock , it leaves me breathless.

Friday night my KH visited her best friend and brought a pair of her panties from her house that were in the wash basket.
Panties are another fetish of mine.
She then, after un locking me began to caress her cock through the soft cotton panties.
I thought I was going to lose a load but the play stopped leaving me again screaming from the edge.
KH explained I may be allowed a full orgasm in the friends panties, but she is still thinking about it.
I sometimes think that KH has forgotten I am in chastity then she goes and surprises me.
I think the forgetfulness or simple being ignored is also part of the Tease and Denial.

Yours Screaming from the Edge
Softy Pants.

 

Still enjoying chastity and KH, dare I say improving.
Off to Crete next week and KH is a little reluctant to keep me locked whilst there. She says she has plans for me??
When I am locked up which is all the time I never know when my next T&D session will be.
I am averaging an Orgasm every ten days or so. KH is experimenting with ruining them but does stop sometimes a little late.
I still want to top from the bottom and I have to take it slow.
I am thinking of suggesting that if I am released during the holiday a target can be set when we return.
I am beginning to feel that when I am allowed an orgasm, whether full or ruined it is forced masturbation as ten days does not feel long enough.

Rob

 

Back from Crete. It was great to get away. No children around. Both the children although adults are still at home and this can be somewhat restrictive.
Took the Key Holders guide for my wife to read and she is slowly getting in to chastity.
I have taken it slow and at times she has enjoyed it also.
Work and general life sometimes leaves us tired.
K/H is getting better at ruining orgasms.
Thought about the ten day comment and I agree.
K/H is tonight making a decision as to how long I am locked up for and when my next orgasm will be.
Secretly I am hoping for a month which will include much teasing but no orgasm.
I think this is now where our journey begins as I want to reach and pass milestones.However, reading many posts I often think we are running before we can walk as I would like to take chastity into the future.

Mostly I have topped from the bottom but as we have had a vanilla relationship for nearly thirty years I have to start somewhere. Plant the seed, so to speak.

Mistress B what sort of time would you set to expect a change of attitude as I find this interesting?
I find your posts/comments informative and would appreciate your comments/guidance.

Thanks for reading

Rob

 

Thank you for your advice. This is a very friendly place and I enjoy the site.


We are going for the six week period. This is day nine. Teasing and Denial inside and out of the cage as been enjoyed at KH discretion without any type of orgasm. Six weeks brings mid November So I expect to orgasm then.
I feel pleased KH has a date set for a full orgasm.

I do feel I could go to Christmas, perhaps this is naive of me but I do feel confident.

Would it be right to request I am denied further once mid November comes?

Yours
Rob

 

I thought it time I updated where I am. My last Orgasm was the 17/10/2014. This is now day 19.
My next planned one is 22/11/2014 which will be day 36.
This is my KH's birthday and she has agreed I may be able to orgasm.
It was averaging every ten days which was frustrating and felt like forced orgasm. However, she is now warming to the lifestyle having agreed a release date..
No ruined orgasms so far. This is the longest we have done.
Since we began this journey in April 2014, I have been caged almost every day except when we went to Crete for a week.

I love the CB6ks, it is wonderful and comfortable. I come out for cleaning once a week, however I shower everyday and find I keep clean.

I am secretly hoping I get to day 36 and feel I could go to day 50.
I have recently found visiting porn sites quite boring. I now prefer the teasing captions I find they are good titillation.
KH enjoys the teasing element and occasionally will send a suggestive text which is brilliant.
At times she is hot and then cold, but I do not mind as this is our journey.

Since April my attitude has changed towards my wife, do not get me wrong here, I have adored my wife for all our married life.
I can see my attitude towards her improving which is wonderful and for the better and long may it continue.
I am much more the attentive husband.

This is a wonderful site and I have it a great help and encouraging. Keep up the good work.

Yours
Rob

 

Hi All
I have been quietly getting on with life and chastity and thought it time I update.
I have been locked up now for 90 days without a full orgasm.

She is wonderful at edging me and then leaving me frustrated as I never know when the edging will stop.
It is my birthday next week and we are away for a few days.
I do not know whether she will allow me to orgasm or just leave me frustrated.
I do not want to come I would like to be edged for hours.
I also feel I would liked to be spanked and not allowed a release at all.
It seems strange a year on how my preferences have changed.
I feel so horny all the time and I get the impression I will not enjoy the post orgasm feeling, so would therefore rather not have one at all.
I would be happy with more denial.

There is a lot of what I would like in this thread. I am so excited at being where we are in chastity.
A year on it is wonderful.

Thanks for being here

Robb