It's the end of a busy weekend - we have had lots of fun and games... During the last week we have both been very busy with work and had very little time to play. We have both had lots of time to talk this weekend and have decided to try and do the dom/sub full-time. Now to others this would sound easy peasy but we have 4 kids and both work full time.... Mistress is proposing to put the baby into nappies asap - he will be changed and told to do chores after work. Once the kids are in bed he will be told to strip and serve his Mistress/Mummy... We need to try and keep each other in "the zone", it's so hard when every day life cuts in.. I am determined that this will work as I can see the difference in us both when we are not playing and we will be having kinky visitors soon -HOW EXCITING!!!!! MD
I wish you both the very best. I tried, but failed. Everyday life with it's challenges and stresses did not allow us to stay in "the zone" full time. So now, it's usually weekends only.
I try to fit in some play time each evening, can be small things like cores, massage, games, teasing etc. Just to keep state in mind.. But can't even imagine how hard it must be with four kids.
We had four kids when we started. We have only one left to get out the door. Trust me, hang in it gets better. sk
Thank you everyone for your comments. It is really tricky and we both get frustrated by it. I have an exceptional Mistress who understands that both our jobs and the kids can make life difficult. So far Mistress is trying hard to keep me there and I'm doing my best to do as I'm told Thanks all slave baby Phil
I totally sympathize, my wife and I have 6 kids between the both of us, 5 of which live with us full time. Throw in the fact that I work nights and she works days along with her taking classes at the university and you can imagine how difficult it is for us to live a Dom\sub lifestyle. Lord knows I would truly love to live this lifestyle 24/7 and envy those who can. Good luck to you and I hope it all works out for you...
A little update... We tried full time for a week or so which was great but it soon dwindled due to work/kids and the usual pressures. We are away in a cottage ATM and are having lots of fun, so this is probably the way to go. We will still try to fit in as much as possible at home but nosey kids kinda ruin the moment if you know what I mean Anyways RIP flr, long live kinky weekends lol!! :spank:
Enjoy yourselves and make the most of all the free time you can you have earnt it for certain. slave stroppy ps i hope you packed enough stuff! lol
Hello All. For us, the beauty of a chastity device is that it reinforces our dynamic almost 24/7...it's always there to remind me and my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder knows its almost always there. She reinforces her involvement by wearing her sweet, innocuous , "key to my heart" necklace daily. Our duty to our kids trumps all and does limit "activity" much of the time. That said, my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder knows me all too well from my horny, oversexed, chronic masturbating past and finds peace of mind knowing I am pretty much stuck until time permits and she is in the mood to play...no masturbating to porn, her Victoria's Secret catalog, the mental picture of one of the hot elementary school teachers in hose, a clingy mini and high boots from my one kid's school or anything. Life and kids do limit us, but the device is always there keeping things simmering between us. allaboutHer
We packed for our mini break... And only one case was clothing And then when we unpacked... As you can see we packed light. You can't see it there is a bag of chains and cuffs. We have some very nice beems. And Mistress Deborah has already had me hanging from them.... Thank you Mistress slave baby phil