Long-term domestic obedient slave needed (USA)!

Hello! I am looking for a submissive male to try him as a long-term slave for myself, possibly even in a life-time relationship if everything would work out perfectly. I have a full list of needs and requirements, so please READ carefully if you are interested, give it a thought and HONESTLY answer yourself a question if you perhaps could be a good material for My slave (the final decision is up to Me anyways).

DO NOT contact Me or write to Me anything regarding this thread. If you are interested: post all the questions and statements in this topic! You can ask Me anything, don't be shy, but have in mind that I will give you answers only to whatever I feel like answering. If you will be rude, disrespectful (by for example not referring to me as a Mistress, or not capitalizing every word like "She" that refers to me), immature or messy (by writing a text full of spelling errors, as an example) you will be ignored.

Now, a little bit about Myself. I am a Female full of energy, not a professional dominatrix, more like a spoiled girl type who is naturally attracted to masculine jerks. I love to play with them, but never really had patience to create a stable relationship as My submissiveness usually lasts only during a good sex. I like to have everything MY WAY in My life and always was leaning towards a model of open relationship where I would have one guy who would be My bitch, making sure that everything is indeed My way, and then the alpha males who would be great for other things.

After giving a thought I came to conclusion that if I could only find a perfect man for a slave I would probably be the happiest person in the world to create a life-lasting relationship, while still having carelessly fun with alpha males on the side, without worrying too much if I can get a hold of him for more than one night. It is really hard to find a good material for a slave though... So far the submissive males I've dated were far from being perfect. Most of the times they were submissive only because of their weak personalities or some physical disadvantages, but deep inside they were selfish jerks like the rest of the men. So I decided to try searching better materials on internet. After analyzing here are My basic requirements for a perfect slave:

1. you don't have to be extremely handsome or cute, nor very young, but you have to be clean and presentable. NO fat, dirty and unhealthy pigs.

2. you don't have to be rich, but you can't be a lifeless broke and lazy slug who lives with his parents or in a dirty apartment and eats instant noodles. you DO need to have some decent income to be able to cover at least some of my needs. You have to always be ready for some spontaneous ideas of Mine. As an example: during the first days of our dating I may decide that the good way to spend some time and get to know each other better would be a dinner in some of My favorite restaurant. you obviously will take care of the bill and can't ever expect Me to pay in those situations. But still, this relationship will NOT be about financial domination. I do have money and we would definitely share costs of our living (home, bills, car).

3. NO SEX. EVER. For you, that is. No pussy penetration, no blowjobs or even getting my mouth close to your genitals. I have other men for this. If you still secretly hope for "getting some", get rid of those illusions now and don't even bother here.

4. Chastity will be a must. you don't have to be locked up now, but as soon as we would meet for the first time (probably some coffee shop) I will require you to wear a locking device, and if our meeting will go well and you will be lucky enough to be assumed as a good material for a slave for Me I will require you to handle me the keys.

5. No cock piercings nor weird body modifications! In my opinion it's absolutely disgusting. I want to see a healthy cock, or a clit (in case if you have a micro-penis - that's perfectly fine, even adds some cuteness to it).

6. you will spend all of your time outside of your work as My slave (with some exceptions for family time that we can agree to together). No watching NBA, playing games or watching porn. I have a lot of needs and require lots of attention.

7. you will listen to everything I say and never disobey Me. Disobeying Me = tearing our contract. I will never tolerate disobedience. No exceptions unless there would be some sort of emergency, health-related reason behind it.

8. you will fully trust me, as apart from being positively crazy I am very sane person and for example I will assign to you various tasks that are for your own good (some light workout, so your body won't become disgusting with the time).

9. your eating is in my power. I will expect you to have a healthy diet, I will forbid you to eat sweets, or anything else that is not allowed in your died.

10. NO LAZINESS!

11. you have to be ready to serve and know how to enjoy making the other person happy. Lot's of slaves I've seen are disgusting perverts who just want to look at or grab Mistress's body parts. Slavery is not about you enjoying worshipping Woman's body parts! It is about serving! So:
For you serving a Woman should be enjoyment by itself. There is nothing I owe you for serving Me. You serving Me should be something that brings both of us pleasure.

12. you don't have any expectations other than doing what I will tell you to do. Do not expect that you will get to do something that even thinking of gives you a boner. I may let you worship me if I feel like. Sometimes I may not even let you touch the bottoms of My shoes. Deal with it. It's always up to a Mistress.

13. The closest you will ever get to an intercourse with Me (or any Woman) will be the worshipping sessions. Those are things that are possible but not necessary. I may feel like receiving some of them from you or may not. It will be never up to you nor to some fixed rules "if you do something then you will get a reward". Reward for you will be My happiness and and honor of being My personal slave. Worshipping will never occur for your pleasure but for mine. you will have to put lot's of hard work into pleasing me. If I will decide that I need a massage - you have to give Me a good massage and don't treat it as an opportunity to rub your dicklet against your cage while all excited by touching My body. I may go even as far as using your oral skills to please Me sexually, but again, don't look at it as an opportunity for you to get something out of it because I may just blindfold you so you won't even ever get to see My private parts. And of course: after each session like that you will thank Me.

14. Self-control. You have to have lot's of it. Sometimes I may be standing in front of the mirror in My tight leather pants while getting ready for a date. you may be kneeling behind me with my coat or shoes in your hands, being rewarded with the sight on my juicy ass squeezing those pants. And you will not do anything about it! No touching "by accident", no approaching. I may even order you to stop looking at me and bend your head. And you will do as told.

15. Even though I need you to fight against your straight sexual urges I still require you to be straight. No gays, etc, sorry. I just wouldn't feel comfortable with a man who is My slave because he dreams that one day I will order him to suck a dick or something... The main force keeping you as My slave has to be wild attraction towards me and my feminine body. This is the only way such a relationship can work out.


If you meet all the above requirements you still have to meet one more:
you either have to live in USA/Canada or be willing to move in here as I'm not planning to leave the country (unless Hillary Clinton will become president, lol). I tend to travel a lot throughout US and sometimes even Canada so it doesn't really matter in which state you live. If I will find someone attractive and good enough I will probably talk through online chat first anyways. Then you have to be ready to travel to any location in states that I will choose. Probably some nice coffee shop in a big city. But you have a long way to get to that point. So now get to work.

 

By the way... Just to make it clear. All those strict rules regarding posting here apply to males only. Females are of course more than welcome to add anything they want (maybe some experience in similar forms of relationships or search?).

Mistress MalaRara

 

I just realized that my post may sound a little bit inhumane and unrealistic because of the strong emphasis I put into denying slave's pleasures. Allow me to just explain it a little bit more. The reason I specifically point out that you, as My slave, should have no expectations of having any sexual pleasures with your Mistress is because I'm reaaaally, really, really, really tired of all those losers trying to become my slaves with only one thing in mind: get some sexual pleasure out of it other than serving Me. I wanted to make that clear and eliminate any possible candidates that would be interested because they would envision themselves grabbing My body parts like a wild pervert.

With that being said have in mind that I am looking for a relationship. Even though I am a cruel, egoistic and strict bitch I'm still a human and I need some feelings and vanilla time too. Even though sex will absolutely never be taken even into consideration there will be cuddling and kissing. I really want to find a submissive who is charming and sweet enough to share some good moments, like watching TV together while you rub my feet, talking while I wait for My meal which you will be preparing for Me, sharing the same bed and cuddling while your dicklet struggles in it's cage.

 

And... you need to be a good listener, supportive and not socially awkward. I may introduce you to My family, so be prepared to be open-minded, not too shy and proud of your status and devotion towards your Mistress.

 

Release? LOL



Alright, so far there are like 10 sissies auto-disqualified themselves already by not following a very simple order stated by Me in the first post. I said very clearly: no private messages regarding this request. Everything has to be written publicly here in this topic. I won't even read your "applications". And as all the sissies can see: it is possible to listen and meet all the criteria. @Kevin555 is a good example. No bitching around, no disobeying the basic rules, just "Yes, Mistress". And in our relationship these are the two words that I will be hearing from you most of the times. "Yes, Mistress". Followed by doing whatever you're told to do.

So far I can only say that there will be a PHASE 2 of this "hunt". @Kevin555 feel proud because you are the first person to get into that phase. Do note however that I'm here for quality. I am not in a hurry, nor I'm desperate. I will take my time. As long as I will feel is necessary. I will wait for more applicants. On Phase 2 I may contact you via private messages. You do not have the permission to approach Me in any way. You will patiently wait for My approach. If you will be lucky enough to get a message from Me: don't get too tight in your chastity cage, as that doesn't mean you're even close to anything. Like I stated in the first post: you have a long way to get to the point where I would be interested to meet you in person. There is no fixed schedule for this.

For those who will get into Phase 2: be prepared to answer to any of My questions asked here publicly or in a private message. I will respect your privacy and I have no intentions to order you to share publicly any information that would be too private. Anything like that would be via private message. After receiving a private message from Me you will always thank Me for considering you worthy My attention and answer to anything I asked honestly. You may include some of your own questions or feelings about it, you may NOT however write to Me any private message that is not an answer to My message.

On phase 2 I may want to chat with you via chat on this forum to get to know you a little bit.

I hope everything is clear.

 

As a reminder: if you are not sure about all this, or not confident about your candidacy - don't hesitate to post your questions here.

That's correct. But even though I really like your attitude so far I may drop you if you will continue to not capitalize each "she" (or other words referring to Me). Marking My superiority will be a must in our relationship, just like I expect My slave to be a true gentleman with Me all the time. To make up your mistakes you will follow my writings on this forum and add something from yourself to some topics where I'm active. Give an answer, maybe a good advice, share some knowledge, or simply be supportive and polite.

My slave's life will be a bit monotonous as most of the house chores need to be done on daily basis. But whenever I'm involved anything can happen. Of course, I have some strictly set borders that I will never cross (like no pussy penetration EVER for you) but outside of that border anything can happen.
- you may be peeing out your semen for months
- One day I may be in a mood to reverse the world order and make you my bitch, fuck you with the strapon and showing you how I like to receive it from the alpha males
- I may fuck you so hard that you will drip out all your cum through the cage
- I may get drunk with my friend or lover one evening and be up for some laughter. Order you to cum on My shoes and lick them clean afterwards.
- I may strap you to the floor in the living room, put a condom over your cage, place hitachi wand and wait till you'll cum, while I sit on the sofa watching TV, using you as an extension for my legs.
- and then again I may not feel in mood to play with you for months and you will just have to deal with it. It's always up to the Mistress, never up to you. I'm very spontaneous and creative, but sometimes My creativity can just be all used for real sex and there won't be much left for you.




As for the cage: we will (together, Me and My slave) find the best cage for my new clit. Just like My slave's health will be important for me, it will be equally important that his new caged life will be comfy, so there are no distractions. Each cock is different so it's impossible for Me to say right now what kind of cage I will go with, but I appreciate your concern and I may seek some advice later in the future.

 

As long as you wouldn't dare to give Me any drama and you would have an honest melt-down, while working exceptionally hard on trying to give your best I would cuddle you. you could cry a little bit on My shoulders while My fully clothed perky breasts would press against your body. I would even give you a kiss on a cheek to bring your spirit up. Then I would send you back to whatever chores you were doing, slap your buttcheek on your way.

I would find this scenario rather amusing for Myself (unless it would happen too often or at the time where I'm in a hurry and not in the mood for "mommy role"). For you it would be a good motivation to be a good boy and fight harder against your weaknesses. You would still stay frustrated, however. I won't ever "perform" anything sexual (or even close) when I don't feel like it.

 

All the losers spamming My thread with popcorn and beer are NOT welcome in here. Get a life.

Didn't you say "I'm fine if you never let me see You naked ever"? And now out of sudden you discovered an urge to see your Mistress's breasts?

you're a god boy, I really want to congratulate your Mistress for training you so well!

If you have to read the whole thread 100 times in order to find out what is wrong about your post then do it. Then come back, apologize to Me, and expand your introduction. Take example from @Kevin555
Then perhaps we can talk and perhaps you will be lucky enough to get My attention.