Asking KH not to give me an orgasm

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    Am I alone with this comment, I am new to being locked up, so far I have not had an orgasm for 13 days and had some tease and denial 2 times - during the last T&D I was offered a full orgasm and I declined it for the following reasons:

    1) I personally wanted to hold out longer
    2) was concerned that when I do cum I want it to be a the best orgasm and was worried it would be a wasted orgasm.

    does this make sense, I therefore asked my KH not to let me cum yet

    I appreciate any feedback or advice

    thanks all
     
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    Any orgasms is a good orgasm, as long as your keyholder controls it… It’s not about what you want. It’s about what she wants.
    Enjoy the journey.
     
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    Thank you
     
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    I've turned them down. Not because I don't want one, just because she said that she'll make it as unpleasant as possible.
     
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    i dint like being milk when i had to be . im glad i dont any more now.
     
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    I'm with you jemima, I do not like being milked either
     
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    PornAddict103 Happily addicted to Tease & Denial

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    Exactly! :+1:
     
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    Take the orgasm while you can as time goes by they tend to become less frequent. If she asks and wants you to have one no such thing as a bad orgasm.
     
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    Another great point! :+1:
     
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    Not a point worth arguing about but part of this game is that she is in control, if she wants you to have an orgasm this isn't supposed to be your decision. You asked her to take control.

    That being said, I wish my wife would tease and torment me without mercy but that isn't her way. When I'm fully wound up and on edge, I really appreciate the release but I have begged her to not let me cum ("please lock me back up") which she didn't do.

    I love sex. I enjoy a good orgasm. I have also learned that is very often better to want than to have.
     
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