Hi. I introduced my wife to male chastity almost exactly a year ago. I tried out a CB6000S and then a Vice Mini, and really came to love the experience and the improvements it made to our relationship and my behaviour. The longest we managed to go with my caged and denied orgasm was 3 months. For the last 3-4 months my cage got taken off and we’ve practised cageless chastity since then. I cuddle my wife in bed every morning and night, she plays with her cock, leaving me on a high. I am now thinking of going back into a cage again, feeling that me having erections twice daily (allbeit due to my wife’s loving hands) is cheating. I believe my wife enjoys having her cock readily available to play with, something which she can’t so easily do when it’s caged up. When I am caged she absolutely has more power over me, but with the nuisance factor of having to unlock me every few days for cleaning. What are the views of this forum? Am I being selfish?
I myself can unlocked go for max 1.5weeks without the urge to play with myself so for me a cage is mandatory because my wife hates the drop after a full O. So for oure dynamic cageless wil not work. Maybe for you it can work if you don't have the urge to masturbate on youre own. Therebis a name four it chastity without a cage but i can't remember. But why not lock it when she is on her period?
My wife has past menopause, so no periods to worry about. Fortunately she still enjoys sex regularly, albeit without her husband shooting spunk inside or over her.
If you have the willpower to abstain from masturbating / orgasming without a cage, there's no rule book that says you are doing it wrong. If she wants regular unfettered access to your penis, then a cage would be wrong and against her wishes. I find it easier to get into a chaste headapace with a cage, without it it just isn't the same for me, YMMV.
Wearing my cage last year for months managed to break my masturbating habit, which had been going on for decades. Without that enforced denial of my penis I suspect I could never have done what I have. My wife was away for a week recently and I managed to avoid cumming whilst she was gone- I couldn’t get through a day before we started chastity. I am close to 60, but still able to get hard erections. I enjoy being brought close to climax, and then left to lie there unfulfilled.
You have a wonderful wife. Even beyond into menopause.. she is still sexually active at least in her mind. While she wants to grab your cock every few hours, you could suggest to her to keep you dick caged but let her proceed with teasing, stimulating and enticing you for the rest of the day while you keep denied till the end of the day for an explosive sex with her.. that should be a very valid reason to stay caged till she wants your cock out for some great sex… unless im reading wrong.. that she wants sex several times a day.. then i doubt the male chastity is appropriate for you.. you are enjoying a great retirement..