I have been locked in chastity for about 12 years. Started because my bi wife and I moved away from my wife's girlfriend and my wife is not into guys sexually. She can perform if required since she is bi, but mostly into girls so chastity works out fine for us since sex is only for her pleasure and she does not have to deal with my penis which is locked up ALL the time to prevent orgasms that used to happen when ruined orgasms went too far. Today my wife presented me with a chain link collar and padlock to wear all the time to remind me that she owns me. What it does is the same as my chastity cage. All of us real chastity boys know that you can make yourself orgasm while locked up. Anyone dispute that, just look at chastity porn and see the different ways a man can have an orgasm locked up. In effect the chastity cage is somewhat a speed bump to give you time to think about what you are thinking of doing. Let's you cool off and reminds you of the promise you made to not orgasm. The collar also is a reminder. When I wear it I am at my wife's service and what she wants me to do takes priority over my plans for the day except when it is necessary for health reasons to keep my appointments. So far I have been told to do some chores around the house. At night I must give my wife a back rub and foot rub for an hour before bed. During the day I must play any game she wants to play like Scrabble and Yahtzee. I am to refer to her as Ma'am when locked and never show displeasure at anything she tells me to do or else no sex for a month minimum. For more serious offenses I get a butt bruising paddling and she is not afraid to turn my butt black and blue for a month. Just wondering if anyone else is collared and how it works out for them. The weight of my collar is heavy enough to remind me it is there but light enough that I forget about it most times. Last time we explored this road I ended up wearing female shorts, blouses, panties and bras in and out of my house. I did not like it much and hope we do not go down that road again. It really does nothing for me but make clothes uncomfortable.
Not collared, but I think if I talk to my Wife about it, she would be into the idea. She already tells me I’m her slave a handful of times a week, so maybe we should take that step
I have been permanently collared about 6 weeks now. https://www.eternitycollars.com/col...-with-combination-lock?variant=34067511509128
Its Great. Its Very discrete. mine rides inside the collar of my shirt so it only shows on the sides. mine is big enough to be a little loose but small enough to where i cant take it off. It looks like a regular necklace.
i have not been through airport security yet. I cant imagine it being an issue. Mine is stainless steel. But i have worn necklaces through security before and just been waved through.
Mistress is trying to encourage me to wear an eternity collar 24/7. Yes i'm submissive and yes we love each other but..... I find it tremendously humiliating while out in public. Her response is those that know, know those that don't know don't care. It's like when i was first put into chastity, i was certain everyone would see it. The same feeling of humiliation. I suppose i'll get used to this too. Like chastity it IS a constant reminder of my status. The goal is to please her so...........
I have been collared by my Mistress / wife for 53 years and yes I feel naked with it and my chastity device locked in place . We have recently purchased a custom made cage. which we both love and use it now most days I have no work details
Whenever home alone (which is most of the time) I am naked and I wear a black leather collar. Many times she also has me wear matching wrist and ankle cuffs. She likes that the black leather cuffs and collar match my black HT v5 nub cage.
I wore a collar for the first time recently for a little funishmen session. I absolutely loved it and would want it on every time we play. I'd happily wear it casually but it's not practical for our vanilla lives. The feeling of submission and ownership just makes me feel so good. Also the collars from sex shops/websites are awful. Get a good dog collar is my advice to anyone thinking about it.
My Wife just ordered me the black wrist cuff from Eternity Collars yesterday. We are planning our private collaring ceremony, and this won’t be a hardcore Master / slave relationship or anything, but it’s definitely going to be another step in my service to her, and she already seems very excited to up her dominance. I think she is feeling this will free her even more to become comfortable dominating me and she was enthusiastic last night. Decided it was time for my maintenance spanking and she definitely was swinging harder than normal, and then after giving her oral for about half an hour, she had me use lidocaine to numb my penis a bit so I could give her piv properly while she had two orgasms. So I’d say she is looking forward to collaring me, and to think I was nervous to talk to her about taking this step. We still have some things to discuss about expectations for adding this aspect to what we’ve been living these last four years.