Wife just locked me last night for some tease and denial. We've had a VERY hard time getting the right device but changed up our technique. Because of my body type it's hard to just stay in the damn thing for more than half a day. So we started a new tradition. I unlock while im at work where I'm obviously not going to be tempted to "play as she says" and after I get home and dinner I lock up for just the night. it worked VERY well this first night because I gave her an incredible morning adventure and I was enjoying the night time tease and torture. Just a tip for people who have had difficulties with security. Using a device just during play time and night time has proved to be an effective strategy.
Key advice... "Do what works for you." I'm locked 24/7 and luckily my device is comfortable for 99% of everything I need to do. I've seen a lot of people that lock up only at night, only on the weekends, only when he travels or not at all... whatever works for both of you is all that matters.
For us it's more of a fitting issue. Our ideal situation is 24/7 but with my body type that's proving difficult. I actually JUST fell out of mine at the office. Lucky for me my wife is at home doing research to find a device that may better fit my body type.
Would you mind explaining your "body type"? We've all been there with our differences. No shame here and maybe someone has already gone down the same road you are on.
Over weight and small package that grows alot. So my problem is my penis can kinda get sucked inside me rendering all devices except piercings (and maybe urethral inserts. Dont know JUST bought one so I'll update later on how that went) not only easy to escape from but down right difficult to even keep on. (side note for fun: I'm a hacker and recently picked up the lock picking hobby just because ... well same kinda interest. My wife got real upset because we are going to have to use something other than lock/key from now on. Just ordered serial numbered locks)
Unlocking yourself when you shouldn’t is really about self control and commitment to your KH. Your ability to pick the lock shouldn’t come into play here.
That was more of a fun fact. I'm interested in cherrykeeper tho. I previewed their site and i was wondering what you're using because i didn't see anything really different from typical design. Am i missing something? I would love some more details if it helped you with the same problem
So, the headlock feature of the Cherry Keeper is a series of smaller rings inside the cage, so that you have to force the head past it to get it into the cage. Once in, the head flare should help keep it from pulling back out the ring. I've attached a sectional view - the extra headlock rings are circled, and the large headlock closes up the opening by 9mm from the cage size (height and width). I created an XL and EXTREME headlock version that G42G is trying out now that really closes up that opening, and may be something to consider if you are on the smaller side. The EXTREME headlock takes the opening down to 20mm. If you have specific questions, by all means, ask away - PM me if you don't want to ask publicly - I don't bite Warm Regards, JosieLynn Jewell
everybody is different, and most of us work thru several devices before finding the best one for themselves. I ended up getting a piercing, because my nuts just wouldn't stay in a ball-trap type device.
Can throughly recommend the Bijou, extremely secure comfortable and light. It is a plastic which we were concerned about as they tend to become a problem with smells. But due to the design it can be washed with a hand shower and some liquid body wash without removal and we have had no issues. If it did become an issue the design allows the end cage section to be unlocked and removed to expose your glands without having to remove the tube or the PA pin, then you could throughly wash the end cage section and lock area. Ours is very snug so even if I tried to stimulate myself to an orgasm I cannot achieve an erection and at best it would be ruined. But D does not allow unsupervised time while not locked. And there is no way I would even try.