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    Mrs. S took my anal virginity last night and it was amazing.. She was slow and gental.. Made for amazing time.
    My question is there a better position than another to achieve more stimulation to the prostate..?
     
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    I assume she was using a strap on? It can be difficult to hit the prostate as its not technically in the rectum but can be stimulated through the rectal wall. Having a dildo shaped object go in and out of your rectum will not massage it unless you are trying to, so it takes some skill to hit the right spot otherwise the dildo will just follow the rectum and miss it completely. Communication between you and the Mrs. will be key to helping her find your P-spot. I have no experience with this personally but do have lots of experience with aneros devices. So my thinking would be that the best position IMO would be for you to be laying on your back at the edge of the bed with her facing you so she can angle the dildo upwards towards your prostate. Hope that helps. Also here is a forum thread on pegging that may help. https://www.aneros.com/forum/discussion/10516/pegging/p1
     
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    Lol plenty of practice is all it takes.
    She will soon get to know when she is hitting the right spot and you will get to roll your hips to help.

    Your whoremones will give you away !!
    It's also addictive you will soon learn how to beg xx

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Thank you..for the advice ;)

    I have read about the Aneros.. Sounds very stimulating for hands free play
     
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    Thanks WendyGirl... Im looking forward to keeping you posted on our progress..;)
     
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    Your welcome
    You will find that you will be replacing your toys at regular intervals as you get used to a new bigger one quiet quickly!
    Xx Wendy
     
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    Im looking forward to it. Mrs. S was quiet aroused.. I have never felt her so warm and wet. Mrs. S orgasmed with ease..

    Mrs. S has requested that i come home do my chores and she will rewArd me again tonight..I can't wait..

    Do you find that this is normal for males? Chastity has opened up my sexuality and hightened it.. Mrs. S is really feeling the same way.. Amazing expirence
     
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    Lol
    open the door walk through and enjoy !
    Why you bum has soooo many pleasure receptors I have no idea but just enjoy them . Normal boy spurty orgasam can seem quite a poor thing compared to what you can experience via your bum .

    You should look up enemas and get used to being really clean good for your colon health as well
    Xx Wendy
     
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    One tip (pun intended) is to get a dildo that has a nice curve upwards and is rigid - not soft. The trick is to turn the dildo upside down so the curve is facing down and have your Mistress fuck you doggy style. Her thrusts should either be short i.e. Shallow or very long as your prostate is more towards your opening than it is to your belly

    Have fun!
     
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    The affect of a penile induced orgasm will last for minutes, But a god ass fucking will be felt for hours, Mum SOOO Good !!

    s2455
     
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    Lol
    @s2455

    You are soooo right and are not limited to one or two.
    Toy sessions can last for ages as can fisting , producing some amazing sensations .
    Xx Wendy
     
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    It largely depends on the position.

    If you are on your back, slow gentle thrusts 2-3" deep with an upward curved dildo or strap on works best.

    If Mistress is taking you from behind, on all fours, or bent over a chair, reverse the curve so pressure is pushing down. Again, you will only need to go 2-3" to hit the hot spot for most males.

    If Mistress wants to go deep and long with her thrusts, the only advice I have is to take the maximum girth strap on, 4 -5 fingers, or a large dildo. Use with lots of lube, so you can feel the mass passing over the prostate.

    Good Luck!
     
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    Thank you for all of your openness and helpful advice. I will be posting an update soon... Happy holidays..
     
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    Great advice..thank you.
    Mrs. S enjoyed being able to move things around...
     
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    WendyGirl.. You are so right..my whoremones have taken over.. Im craving her love.. Day dreaming all day about mrs. S pegging me..
     
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    @Wendygirl is an amazing person...tons of knowledge, and practices what she preaches. The ideas she brings up have been "tried and tested". She has helped me so many times in training dickie. You'll be amazed at how far you can expand your horizons, with her help!!!
    Mistress Suzan (and dickie)
     
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    Thank you Misstress Suzan.. I appreciate your openness...
     
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