Keyholders, how do you view your relationship with your wearer?

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    #1 SheLocksMeUp, Feb 9, 2016
    I tend to think that the relationship is a mutual benefit; the wearer gives the key, and the holder gets control.

    It appears to me that it's a mutual benefit, however, I've learned that some keyholders don't view holding a key as a benefit (albeit them getting control, choosing, power, etc).

    How do you view this?

    Do you, as a keyholder, only want a sub? Do you mind a person who is not a sub, but like to relinquish control?
     
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    #2 MistressL, Feb 10, 2016
    First and foremost we are husband and wife. That means we love each other however the relationship is viewed. The love we have is greater than the love of self. We give our all to each other. Our marriage becomes a fortress of well-being. Yes he is submissive. He is not a slave. We do live in a female led relationship FLR but eventhough I have the final say I am smart enough to ask for his advice and at times, his opinion. We both benefit from each other. I look at holding his key as an honor and it is not an issue of control or power, although I do use both at times. We are greater together than in separation, we join forming singularity. Together we are one.
     
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    #3 Jblocked, Feb 10, 2016
    Loved the way you worded this
     
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    #4 SheLocksMeUp, Feb 10, 2016
    I very much like this, and I appreciate the response.
     
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