The Journey to Chastity

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    #51 Joroincharge, Feb 28, 2013
    Well if it ain't broke don't fix it!

    FLRs ( however defined) have a huge array of variations in detail - what works for some doesn't for others.

    That said, controlling the combination of all financial and sexual matters is pretty powerful and can be a lever for most other things if that is what you want. But it can be best not to want everything - and that'd fine too -we're all different.
     
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    #52 CorsetJane, Feb 28, 2013
    Thanks Kelli for a lovely reply. Sounds like you've got your perfect combination and your husband sounds a lucky man.
    The more I read other people's experiences here the more I realise how different combinations can work. It inspires me to continue in my quest to get my wife to be my keyholder. Who knows where that first step can lead. We're certainly closer to that position but whilst she understands my feminine side I suspect that she still doesn't quite relate to chastity. Onwards and upwards.. Or perhaps that should read onwards and sub-wards ,,,
     
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    #53 Kelli, Mar 17, 2013
    It's been a hellish month with all the new tax laws and I have had very little time for myself.

    As an example today I had to fly out Cincinnati to meet with one of my corporate clients who I've been working with very closely over the past several years.

    So during the 5 hour flight out caught up on a couple good books I've been wanting to read and relaxed.

    And then it hit me, I have not had a good screw in months.

    Then I began thinking about the first time I met with this client and his flirtatious comments.

    I've never strayed outside my marriage and never even considered it till a few hours ago.

    Bill has been dropping hints of becoming a cuckold, however I'm sure becoming a "long distance" cuckold was in his plans. <grin>

    So for now I'm just going to reach into my suitcase, pour a glass of wine and some 420, grab a toy and dream about it....

    Night Night....
     
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    #54 Joroincharge, Mar 18, 2013
    Sweet dreams.
     
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    #55 Joroincharge, Apr 10, 2013
    Any more hints or thoughts?

    This lifestyle's not for everyone, but if you and he both want it, and you've got him well locked, well......
     
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    #56 Kelli, Apr 10, 2013
    :rolleyes: Well...... to be honest yes but because of Bill's stature in our community and the consequences if this was to get out before his retirement would destroy everything we have worked for since our marriage. So unless it's a long distance type of thing it's going to have to wait another year till he pulls the pin.

    Tax day is only 1 week out!!! Looking forward to it so I can get away for a few days <grin>
     
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    #57 Joroincharge, Apr 10, 2013
    Makes good sense to me. No sense at all in jeopardising what you've achieved so far.

    Best wishes.

    Tax year in UK is finished - ends April 5th, new one April 6th: long strange and boring reason (wholly vanilla) for this one!!
     
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    #58 RexVa, May 9, 2019
    Indeed--how has it progressed?

    Given the time frame, I suspect you may have also considered, and surely even administered, discipline for him along the way.

    Are you still satisfied?
     
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