Sorry if this is in the wrong section. I was wondering if anyone had any hints or tips on how to get my girlfriend to be the lead in the relationship. I wiuld love it if she took a more Femdom role and have fantasized about it for a long long time. I have read articles online as of late and most are saying "just tell her". Is it that easy? Would she be ok with it? I was shining if someone had any ideas on a way to see if she has a dominant side because I get mixed dogmas from her that could go both ways. Sorry if this question is bad. I just dint know how to do it, ir the correct words to say. The urge to be submissive is growing inside me. Its almost to the point where I feel like our sexual part of the relationship isn't fun ir exciting for me anymore. And I feel like it would dive it up by submitting to her. Anyways, any hel would be much appreciated. Thank you!
Make your desires known but realize it is Her decision. Don't try to make Her do anything She is not comfortable with. Even if She chooses not to be dominant in any overt way, you can still be a good submissive by doing everything you can to make Her life better.
Thanks for the great information. I think I have built up enough courage to talk with her tonight. Ill let you know how it plays out.
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority website has always been a good source for general information and suggestions on how to introduce your wife or girlfriend to the benefits of a female-led relationship, mook2291... http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ When my subhub first confessed his fantasies and desires to me way back when, this was one of the very first sites he showed me.