Not sure I fit in...

you are very welcome here. Different people have different likes and that's fine.

 

I feel the same way. I don't have any interest in going for very long periods of time, cleaning the house, or being a complete slave to my gf. I want to give up control but mosty don't want to go longer than a week. It's the not knowing when I'll be released and the role play that goes along with it. It doesn't have to be months for the effect to be enjoyable.

Unfortunately it seems 95% of the people here are into hardcore femdom. They're all very nice people mind you but the type of chastity/submission you and I are interested in is a small minority.

 

Hi dont think for one minute you dont fit in here everyone has a starting point and a finishing point but the common interest here is an interest or fascination with the idea of chastity. It doesn,t matter how strong the feeling is inside each individual person the fact that there is a common interest makes you welcome. It can be as you describe just a passing whim or something totally engrained it matters not all anyone wants and expects here at the Mansion is that we all respect each others opinion. Indeed a large number of folks on this site started out with just a little curiosity about the subject and for some it has grown into a whole new way of life for them and that is fine for them but not for everyone. The main thing is to enjoy the freedom to experiment and try new things i only wish there were more places such as this available when i was a younger man trying to find out what i was seeking deep down. Enjoy and welcome you are amongst friends here.

 

VERY well said, stroppy.

 

thank you brenda it was meant

 

worthit/ easternsub.

There are many threads and comments on here that may surprise and indeed shock you, but our way of life takes many courses. Just take part in the discussions that are of interest to you.

 

A first timer here that thinks they are at the same starting point that we have. We usually start on Friday and end on Sunday afternoon to come back to the real world.

 

Hi Mistress,

Actually I do enjoy reading about people's more extreme interests. I even get turned on and sometimes think I might like to try some of them.

However I'm mostly interested in someone putting me in chastity to control masturbation. If they wanted to dabble in more at times I'd be more than open to that but it would have to be the exception and not the rule...

 

Hey worthit:

Lots has been said so far and I feel for you and i want to hug you or somethin,,,you know in a guy kind of way.
Buddy, the only thing and the only way anyone "dosen't fit in" around here is if they are too big for a chastity tube!


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So Welcome! :anim_32:

 

Just remember there is no right or wrong way to play chastity games. I for one don't like the sissy side that others do, are they wrong? No. Am I wrong? No. Enjoy your games and some interesting discussions, even the discussions on issues you don't care for can be entertaining to read.

 

i dont mind if some folks dont like sissys, just as long as they aint rude to sissys. Cos i love being all girly and dressing in pretty clothes.

 

I like sissies a lot.

 

I dont think I would say that most here are into hardcore but everyones different when it comes to the Lifestyle. All of us started somewhere, when My husband introduced Me to a site like this years ago I didnt know anything about this lifestyle, now I love it!
As someone up above this post said...you may not be into all thats offered here but sometimes its just fun to read and learn about others.
You never know what you may find that you are interested in. When I first got into this Lifestyle I was only about sub males. Now....I own My sissy rachel who lives with us in our home, and have many other sissys that are close friends and visit often. So, ya just never know. The thing is everyone has thier own thing and whatever you have chosen as what you enjoy will evolve over time. Just enjoy and have fun with whatever you do.

Mistress Michelle

 

Thank you Mistress Brenda, curtsy, we do try to do our best and please our Mistresses.

 

I'm not saying I don't like sissies, in fact I encourage you to enjoy your thing. Its just not my interest.

Exactly!

 

thats ok janders, im sorry if i upset you.

 

I myself am not into hardcore chastity and neither is my wife. It's just another fun game we play. Saying that I would like to see a some longer lock up times.

Worthit, it's all about having fun and enjoying yourself!

 

If you can fit into your chastity device, Worthit, I believe you'll fit in just fine around here. Welcome!!!

 

Hi Worthit, i agree with all the others. If you are locked up or want to be, you will fit in...For that matter if you are locked up and don't want to be, you still fit in! LOL

 

That's ok, I just wanted to clarify so there was no misunderstanding. :biggrin:

 

Hi - I'm new to this lifestyle too. So far I've only managed a few days on the trot (no nights though) I'm working out where the fantasy ends and reality kicks in!! What I don't "get" yet is hygiene - surely you can't go all week night and day locked up without smelly consequences. Not tried more than 12 hours yet but how do you keep clean??

 

andy, you politely ask your Mistress to unlock you, so you can clean everything. simples. my Mistress dont like smelly bits. giggle.

 

My husband is released under supervision for cleaning -- of himself and of the device. Supervision is usually by me although any Female is acceptable.

 

Who's to say where vanilla ends and fetish starts? But if people have a wearer/keyholder relationship but are vanilla in all other respects, maybe you're right and it is making headway into mainstream.

And why not?

We're all different, after all.