Hodwy from Phoenix Az. I'm 56 years old, married and exploring the chasity scene. My wife thinks this is crazy and not quite accepting of it just yet.
>wife is not onboard >if you want to hook up drop me a line :/ I don't think you're going to get anyone with that combo. Other than that, welcome to the site.
Aw, love that "wooden" finish device you're wearing... but that is a difficult situation for everyone. Are you able to have calm conversations about the erotic with your wife in general? Is there something about chastity that bothers her in particular, or is sex an uncomfortable topic overall?