Looking to become a better Misstress

Hang a padlock on them. 24/7. Or if he's really low-hung, two padlocks- one on each!

 

Yay! Hello Miss C, we have been expecting you.
welcome to the mansion. this is easily the best site on the web for
chastity discussions we are very glad you joined us.

now abou "2 inch" i find it humorous that he is rebelious.
(2 inch, i hope you forgive me for smiling over that buddy)
Its the name that seems contradictory.
well hope that soon gets sorted out.

We have the team of "Three Mistressketeers" here and there
are at least four of them and Joro is one!
So enjoy the site get to know the other
women and look around, theres always lots to do and read.


Truly humble: subklik

 

Welcome to the forum, miss c.

My best advice is to make everything about You and Your pleasure. Teach him what you want him to do and how to please You. And this should be 24/7. Not just a sometimes game. His every moment, his every thought should be about pleasing You.

If he gets rebellious, or shows any hesitancy to obey, spank him and repeat the order. he will learn.

I have seen his posts and I believe he sincerely wants to serve You.

 

Welcome to the mansion Miss C

 

Kind of you to say so subklik!

Buty I'm sure we're all here to help you get where you want to be! Take your time, and ask around. You should enjoy it here!!

 

One word miss c. Feminisation.     It works wonders.

 

Hello Miss C , Mistress Deborah I am sure will give you some advice if you want it and I agree with making it about you , but most importantly let him know your the boss. Set up a chastity agreement with him - make him realise these are the terms but also remember he is your other half and he loves you so dont set anything in there that is not what you want or you feel he does not want - talk and discuss and agree and then twist it a bit to spice it up!...

It's what works for us! - I have no desire to be feminised or a sissy and Mistress Deborah knows that but she also knows I like to wear her underwear - so she uses that...

Remember its about you and 2inch and yes form what he has posted on my posts before I get the feeling he is a handful in some ways! BUT if he wants you to play then you are in charge ! Make sure he knows and the rest will come naturally.!

Good Luck
Enjoy the ride!
Phil

 

Miss c has not been paying attition to me, i dont see how this can bring us closer.and i was just informed after bugging her i will not cumm tonight or sun morning. I cumm every sat night or sun morning ,till now . She wont tell me anything of her findings at this site.i know she will read this but its all true so i have nothing to worry about.except not cumming

 

Well it is her right if and when you get to cumm.....sorry......I wouldnt be bugging her or you may never get to have a release of any kind......

 

This is not directed specifically at 2inch but to guys in general. If your Owner let's you cum at all, you are fortunate. My husband has not cum in over five years. And he thanks me every day for the honor of serving me.

I'm just saying let's remember what's important here. And it is not the male orgasm. Instead of wondering when you will cum, devote your energy to doing everything you can to make Her life better.

 

Hmmmmm I may throw the cat amongst the pigeons here but I am a believer in giving the guy a goal to reach.
Slave is given a definite date and it is always adhered to.
It is something that we work towards and it makes US happy. The operative word being Us, this is not to say I am right and others are wrong but I love to know that after however many days I will get my man.
I am monogamous so therefore do not get any sex from elsewhere and although I love all of the teasing and denial I do love a good hard fuck to be honest and when I get it I am calm and happy lol !!

Back to the thread.....
Rebellion, if chastity is something that you both want you need to to get a grip and sort him out.
Lay down the rules - a contract or the like - and stick to it ! Don't be swayed by him or when you've had a few drinks.
You will find after a while you will relish your new role and want more. He is a tough nut to crack but you can do it- find his weakness, they all have one lol !!!, and BINGO you are Mistress and his keeper !
But above all you must remain true to your beliefs as a couple, be honest and always respect each other.

 

Brendajjq and Mistress Deborah.....both of your posts are great and we should all take your advice to heart. Thank you

 

Welcome to the Mansion Miss C, the 3 KH here are spot on, and from what i`ve read from them so far all I can say is that it helped my KH greatly.

 

Sorry miss c i wont say that again ,ever,love u miss u

 

But is he unhappy about the lockup? Or is he unhappy about displeasing You? I can understand the former. But the latter is much better.

As his attitude progresses, I hope he would be much more unhappy about displeasing You.

 

Its both brenda ,im not gonna lie the lock up is hard for me , i have a strong sex drive im always horney .miss c told me 10 days and i was beeing ungreatfull .i told her 7 times over the past several days i wanna ---- .so she added a day on every time i said it .however missc did not tell me untill i already said it 7 times.miss c i know u will read this , i was just informing brenda and the others .so please understand i was not saying or implying it thanks

 

I understand, 2inch. I hope you put the 17 days to the best use. Forget about release. It's not going to happen. Instead, concentrate on serving and pleasing Miss C with every waking moment. And Miss C, I hope you encourage him in this and make it clear what he should be doing.

 

Miss C, if your rules have changed (as is certainly your prerogative), I hope you always explain that to him.

I have always felt it is my husband's job to obey me and to please me but it is my job to explain to him what I expect. If he feels an instruction is unclear, or if he is unsure what will please me in a certain situation, he should always ask.

 

Thanks brenda , ur not so scary now lol,its just after reading a lot of ur post i was worried bout miss c getting ideas / advice from u .however its for my own good and her pleasure ,and our relationship

 

you thought I was scary, 2inch? That's sweet. But I am very reasonable. I just know that I deserve the best and I expect to receive it. My standards are high but my husband has worked very hard to meet them.

 

I understand, Miss C. I was referencing your quote that he considered you a "pushover" in the past so I figured maybe something had changed.