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    #51 subklik, Jun 22, 2012
    Saw a tip for a homemade KTB that fits inside a CB tube....
    No...! (if i have a choice that is...)
     
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    #52 Sine Die, Jun 22, 2012

    I laughed when i read this comment :)

    A Mistress can be so cruel at times.

    I don't think many man locked in a KTB would like many pointed spikes sticking into his erection but many woman would.
     
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    #53 brendajjq, Jun 22, 2012
    Ah, Sine, but if you want to please her and she wants it, wouldn't you want it too? Doesn't the smile of a Mistress outweigh any pain you might have in your penis? It seems to me the answer is obvious. It's just a case of knowing what's important.
     
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    #54 Sine Die, Jun 22, 2012
    Yes i would :)

    The Mistress and her needs would be important not my need to have an erection or to cum.
     
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    #55 brendajjq, Jun 22, 2012
    I could tell you are a smart guy, Sine. What a wonderful response.
     
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    #56 simpletwistfate, Jun 22, 2012
    Brenda, I absolutely love your posts. They're inspirational.
     
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    #57 RyuHimora, Jun 22, 2012
    I'm a male virgin just now getting into the chastity scene under order of my potential Dom (I just completed my first 24 hour period last night). I have never been in intimate contact with any girl (not by choice...) and so far my only sexual pleasure has been from masturbation.

    I honestly don't see myself getting anywhere near having sexual intercourse for another few years, with or without my cage on. I live a very nerdy lifestyle and most if not all of my girl friends are tomboys who either already have boyfriends or aren't looking for sex.

    Still, I think it'd be fun to have a Domme who teases me with/about it ^.^
     
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    #58 brendajjq, Jun 22, 2012
    Thank you, simple. What a sweet thing to say!
     
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    #59 sabine, Jun 23, 2012
    I am glad to see there are still a few of us virgins running free out there ;)
     
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    #60 Joroincharge, Jun 23, 2012
    I seem to have hit on quite a hot topic! LOL.

    Of course there's another option. So he's virgin. So you fix him with something really high security - maybe a Lori 2E with piercings or whatever.

    Then when it arrives and you've fitted him and checked it works and no problems you take it off.

    And have him have sex for the first time, and ensure he really enjoys it.

    But then, when you lock him back up afterwards, it's never again.......<weg>
     
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    #61 Rita, Jun 23, 2012
    Even better if you don't tell him its for ever, keep promising him more sex as long but always make the conditions just a little bit too difficult for him to achieve. You have your male eager to please but giving you plenty of excuses to punish him! <weg>
    Rita
     
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    #62 Gabriellia, Jun 23, 2012
    Wow Joro. I like the way you think..
    As long as it's not me.
     
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    #63 sissy steph, Jun 23, 2012
    wow........that's just so wrong....lol

    glad it's not me...... :anim_35: .....
     
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    #64 brendajjq, Jun 23, 2012
    With my husband, it just hasn't been an issue. I may choose to let him have sex someday. he may be a virgin forever. It's not his decision. he accepts that and he just devotes himself to my pleasure.
     
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    #65 Joroincharge, Jun 23, 2012
    Quite so Brenda.

    It's to be your option not his.

    And there are plenty of other uses for that tackle of his so he does what he's told LOL!

    But there are so many possibilities.....
     
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    #66 brendajjq, Jun 24, 2012
    I'm looking forward to Joro's book, "101 Things to Do With a Penis." It will be a best seller.
     
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    #67 Joroincharge, Jun 24, 2012
    Thanks Brenda

    And the sequel could be "101 things to do with testicles" LOL
     
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    #68 shoegaze, Jun 24, 2012
    I'm sorry but I can't let this one go by without making comment.

    Please let me start with a disclaimer. Brendajjq, obviously I don't know you personally and I can only comment based on my impression of what you've written in this thread. Please do not take this personally and I offer this comment with respect and hope that you'll consider what I have to say. I'm also willing to accept that my premise may be wrong so feel free to say if I've overstepped the mark.

    Speaking as someone who's just walked away from a collapsed marriage and still a virgin I think I can say that I might have some idea of what it's like for your partner and from my point of view your situation is very wrong. All fantasies aside and no matter what anyone else says, there is only one reason he is still with you and that is because he trusts you absolutely. And yet you betray that trust every time you "get your sexual pleasure elsewhere". At the four year mark, and having taken a marriage vow I think it's safe to say you're well past the point of fantasy and into the realm of real emotional blackmail. "He serves you the way he is." Have you lost the line between fantasy and real slavery? Make no mistake - he does not enjoy the situation and only tells you different because he probably has no choice. There's your way or the highway. My advice to him would be to get out! This situation is not healthy and the fantasy has bleeded through to become your reality. If you don't have a mutually respectful equal partnership then you have nothing of value and the fantasy experience is not adding interest or spice it's just breeding discontent & bitterness and I'd hate to be around the day somebody snaps and does something that cannot be undone. There's a better life out there just waiting for you to grasp it.
    My advise to Brenda (unwarranted as it is) would be to make a real choice: consider ending the charade, consummate the marriage, get some counselling and begin to learn how to have a real relationship. Then (and only then) ASK HIM what he wants! Once you have genuine respect and trust for each other then you can go back to the fantasy and I'll bet it will bring you both to new heights that you'd not imagined before. Alternatively, offer an annullment, you walk away with none of his possessions (just deserts), and you both begin to learn all over again. Either way - work hard, play hard and be excellent to each other.

    As for myself, I'll just keep yearning for an ordinary vanilla relationship but until that day comes I can still explore this mansion with a grain of salt and a level head.
     
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    #69 simpletwistfate, Jun 24, 2012
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    #70 brendajjq, Jun 24, 2012
    Your remarks seem to come from genuine concern, shoegaze, and for that reason I am not offended. Different things work for different people. Realize that you see only a small fraction of my life in my posts. I have not attempted to write my autobiography here. My husband and I love each other very deeply. The way we express that may seem unusual to you but it is natural to us.
     
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    #71 shoegaze, Jun 24, 2012
    No popcorn required, it's a fair enough answer and I'm not here to feed any trolls!
    cheers
     
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    #72 brendajjq, Jun 24, 2012
    One more word. What my husband and I share is very intense, very intimate and very satisfying for both of us.
     
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    #73 Caged Wolf, Jun 24, 2012
    Very good thread, several truly thought provoking posts, and some insight into the thoughts and relations. Hope this one keeps going!

    BTW, I was the stereotypical 25 y/o virgin when I met my now ex-wife. I was hoping for something like I've found here, but she was VERY vanilla. Didn't know exactly what I was looking for, or that it even existed!!!
     
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    #74 nycsub1989, Jun 24, 2012
    I've only had sex once so while not a virgin, I might as well be. I imagine all the masturbating probably doesn't help, but I have trouble controlling myself when I have access or the keys that grant access.
     
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    #75 tttruth, Jun 25, 2012
    I'm a virgin also. I don't know whether it's fear or fantasy, but, the idea of being locked up forever and forever being denied access.... man, that gets me all hot and bothered!!
     
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