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    #1 brendajjq, May 23, 2012
    Greetings all. I am very happy to find so many kindred souls here. Women who know their superior place. And plenty of obedient men. It makes me very happy.

    My husband obeys me completely. We have had very few issues since he sincerely wants to please me. There have been a few times he was reluctant to obey. he looks back at those incidents with shame.

    We don't have any formal contract like I have seen discussed on this and other sites. he basically has one rule: obey me. I have elaborated on this simple rule at times to cover unusual situations. I actually did compile a list. But this was more to answer others' questions. My husband usually understands what I want but may ask me if he is unsure.

    he is kept in chastity. I am free to do whatever I with with whomever I wish. As it should be.

    Both of us are extremely happy with our roles.

    I have thoroughly enjoyed reading all the posts here. I am especially touched by all the males who are trying so hard to please their Wives and Girlfriends. I salute you.
     
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    #2 DeesHubby, May 23, 2012
    Welcome and congratulations on your keeping your husband in his proper place while you enjoy the freedom that you deserve as a dominant female. I am sure you will find a lot of friendly and helpful folks here and am sure you will be able to provide some knowledge with your experince as well.
     
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    #3 MelCooley, May 24, 2012
    Welcome, brendajjq! Have fun. (but it sounds like you already are!)
     
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    #4 brendajjq, May 24, 2012
    Thank you for the welcomes. This looks like a wonderful site.
     
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    #5 Gunner, May 24, 2012
    Welcome!
     
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    #6 brendajjq, May 24, 2012
    Thanks Gunner.
     
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    #7 Bobby, May 24, 2012
    Welcome to the forum. Its always refreshing to come across a woman who knows so clearly what she wants and how to get it. I have nothing but admiration for your treament fo inferior males.
     
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    #8 brendajjq, May 24, 2012
    bobby is very enlightened. I admire your attitude very much.

    And you are right. I do know what I want and I expect to get it. I spent a lot of time training my husband to do exactly what I want.
     
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    #9 Bobby, May 24, 2012
    Obedience is number one. I sometimes forget my place but the subsequent spanking I receive over her lap helps to remind me to improve my behavior. She knows exactly how to put a sissy in his place.
     
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    #10 brendajjq, May 24, 2012
    you are so lucky that She spanks you to help you learn. I hope you thank her afterward.

    During his training, my husband got spanked a lot. Not so much for disobedience but for hesitation to obey.

    When I give an order, I expect it to be obeyed immediately. Hesitation means he is thinking about whether he wants to do it. Unacceptable.
     
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    #11 Bobby, May 24, 2012
    Perfectly understandable. I most often get spanked for trying to sneak a peak at my wife having sex with her boyfriend when I'm supposed to be doing my chores. But I also got spanked for touching her without permission the other day. That was 100 of her best with the paddle. Ouch! That certainly taught me a lesson!
     
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    #12 brendajjq, May 24, 2012
    bobby, you have an excellent attitude. But I can understand her need to spank you for your continued infractions.

    I hope the spankings help you learn.

    I usually make my husband watch me having sex. It is useful to remind him of his place. And part of his job is cleaning me afterward.
     
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    #13 Bobby, May 24, 2012
    My wife just started taking the pill (she used a spermacide previously) specifically to faclitate my having the option of cleaning her out after her lover has left a big load inside her. Since she's cut me completely off of sex, that will be the closest I get to having any with her.

    As to the spankings, yes, they are painful and humiliating to endure but they help me to be more obedient and serve her better.
     
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    #14 brendajjq, May 24, 2012
    you are so lucky she allows you to clean her pussy. What an honor for you.
     
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    #15 Bobby, May 24, 2012
    LOL, It hasn't happened yet but it will as soon as she's past the first month (she just started taking the pill a week or so ago). And yes, I will consider it a great honor to be able to lap again at her wonderful pussy, even if it is filled with another man's cum. Her boyfriend is very possessive of her and won't even let me lick her when he's away. :eek:(
     
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    #16 brendajjq, May 24, 2012
    I am sure you will be grateful to serve Her any way you are allowed.
     
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    #17 Joroincharge, May 26, 2012
    @Brenda

    Have you seen these Tshirts?

    http://www.zazzle.com/i_own_all_of_him_shirt-235757389387133002
    http://www.zazzle.com/i_even_own_his_testicles_tee_shirts-235000012669712650

    http://www.zazzle.com/my_wife_wants_to_remove_my_testicles_t_shirt-235186951074722574
     
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    #18 brendajjq, May 26, 2012
    How sweet, Joro. I am proud to own his testicles. I do not plan to remove them but I have discussed it with him and he acknowledges that that is my right.
     
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    #19 Joroincharge, May 26, 2012
    No I wouldn't want them removed either. So many things you can do with them LOL.

    But good to see you've got hubby well controlled.

    You'll enjoy this site....
     
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    #20 brendajjq, May 26, 2012
    Oh I agree completely. Lots you can do with them.

    But I was gratified by his acknowledgement of my authority over them.

    Thanks, Joro. I like this site a lot.
     
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    #21 Joroincharge, May 27, 2012
    LOL

    Is hubby on this site too? If not does he know about it?
     
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    #22 brendajjq, May 27, 2012
    I allow him limited computer privileges. he is not on this site as of now. I may allow him on in the future. It could be helpful in his training.
     
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    #23 Joroincharge, May 27, 2012
    In your situation I think I'd suggest you have an avenue you can swap ideas with others like you which he won't/can't know. Always have something up your sleeve. Depends though on whether this is what you feel you'd like/need.

    If you control which websites he can visit then I'd keep it that way. Do you also control his passwords? If you want another site for him to learn training there's also e.g. Fetlife. Plenty of groups there for subbie males.
     
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    #24 brendajjq, May 27, 2012
    Thanks again, Joro. You are a fountain of great information.

    I will check out Fetlife.

    As for hubby, yes, I control his passwords. But more than that. he only goes online under my supervision when I am there to monitor him. It's not that I don't trust him. I absolutely do. But it just seems better to keep all of his life under my control.

    I have told him, "How does your being online serve me?" his time is better spent on household activities.

    Now, if I can find a nice place for him and other males to discuss how to please their Women, I'm sure I would be OK with that.
     
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    #25 Joroincharge, May 28, 2012
    Then if I were you I'd keep the online control as it is now. Maybe a separate puter for him with only limited access to websites of your choice (you can use Teamviewer etc to control). You can check where he's been but he can't search your history or whatever.

    On Fetlife there are certainly groups for what you envisage. I'll take a look when I'm next there. Mind you, there are also some pretty mean FD groups there too! If you want to check there and register yourself you may want to use another handle/place (many register as in Antarctica for this reason) so he won't realise it's you out there!

    You've obviously got him where you want him, but you might have some nice ideas to share (with other F KHs!), or be looking to pick up ideas from others on tightening the screws as it were.

    How long have you had him in 24/7 chastity?
     
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